The junior high school stage is an important turning point in the growth and development of children’s personalities. Teenagers in this period are generally eager to get rid of the shackles of their parents and find their own space. Therefore, parents and friends should keep abreast of their children’s psychological state. The following is a brief introduction to the common psychological problems of junior high school students. Due to the awakening of their sense of independence, junior high school students began to pay attention to communication with their peers and began to yearn for “friendship”, and they paid more attention to the opinions of “friends”. They dare to say “no” to adults, but they are used to saying “yes” to their “brothers” and “sisters”. This kind of mentality has a positive side. The friendship of peers will bring them a lot of “consolation”, and it is also the primary stage of interpersonal communication. However, peer pressure can also be very destructive, and there are many examples of this problem. A teacher asked his students: “Why do you want to smoke?” The student answered plausibly: “How can I not smoke when my buddies smoke? It’s not an alternative, do you still want friends?” There are also a few boys riding bicycles I often run red lights and ask why, it turns out that several people met with the theme of “Beyond the Red Light District” to prove their bravery and fearlessness, which is really ironic.
Another problem derived from the awakening of independence consciousness is the blind imitation of adults. Some boys are very envious of adult men’s way of entertainment and pastime. They yearn for high-consumption places such as “Di Bar”, “Bar”, “Internet Cafe” and “Resort”, hoping that one day they can be crazy and unrestrained. What about girls? Most of them belong to “groupies”. They even imitated the frowns, smiles and every move of famous film and television stars to satisfy their curiosity. Imitation of adults is a need for the psychological growth of junior high school students, if moderately beneficial and harmless. However, due to their limited experience and ability, they often cannot grasp themselves well. Some are addicted to “high consumption places” and have to use improper means to “make money”; some are addicted to “star chasing” which leads to a psychological disorder called “daydreaming”. Cause unintentional learning, or even go astray.
Another manifestation of imitating adults is the heterosexual interaction of junior high school students. With the germination of “sexual awareness”, attention to the opposite sex and desire to make friends of the opposite sex are also very common in junior high school. They still can’t fully understand the social nature of “gender roles”, nor the seriousness and complexity of “love” and “marriage“. They believe that their first love is extremely sacred and the lover of their first love is perfect. And go through fire and water at all costs. However, love is easy to get along with, and these beautiful “dreams” cannot stand the test of reality. Differences in personality, various misunderstandings, and mutual non-letting often lead to these “love relationships” being short-lived, with flowers but not In fact, even flowers are “opening in the morning and closing at night”, some students in the opposite sex can’t control themselves well, causing some unwanted consequences, some have “sex sins and mistakes”, and some have “sexual psychological deviations” .
