When friends communicate well, the friendship will last for a long time. On the contrary, the friendship between friends will be short-lived and fleeting. I hope you can master the scientific method of making friends, so that your friendship with your friends will last forever and stay young forever. Have you paid attention to the following questions? Learn to listen to friends. As a friend, you have to learn to listen. When your friend encounters setbacks and troubles, he will find an object to vent his emotions. As a friend, if you can listen to the other party’s story sincerely and patiently, you will open an emotional outlet for your friend. Asking for favor should be enough.
People make friends, of course, can not do without human exchanges. However, one must also ask for more. You ask someone once, and they help you. If you don’t know much about the fun, and you keep getting ahead, then your friends will get bored and resentful towards people like you, and in this way, the relationship between friends will be difficult. to continue. Friendship should have “degree”. There is a very philosophical saying in China called “things that go to great lengths must be reversed”. In life, anything that goes too far will go to its opposite. The same is true of friendships. The past is very close, and cracks are prone to appear. Only by grasping the appropriate degree can friendship become eternal.
Friendship should never idealize friends. There are no two identical leaves in the world. Although a friend has the same temperament, similar interests, and similar nature as you, a friend is a living person after all, and there will always be some differences with you, there will always be shortcomings of one kind or another, and there will always be secrets that you do not want to know. Therefore, when interacting with friends, don’t idealize your friends too much, and don’t take “I” as a reference for all your friends’ words and deeds. The correct grasp of friendship and love. Apart from love, there should be a place for friendship between men and women.
There are gender differences between men and women, but as long as you pay attention to the size, you can establish a healthy, elegant and pure friendship. Say “no” to friends. Friends often ask each other for something, which is the political party. But there are also people who ask each other for things that often go beyond the scope of principles and objective reality. In such a situation, as a friend, you should say “no” decisively. It is human nature to make friends for mutual benefit. However, don’t treat your contacts with friends simply as work-for-profit contacts, because in addition to helping each other with something, friendship also has the functions of exchange of ideas, complementary knowledge, emotional comfort, and pleasure. To pursue utilitarian flashbacks, then such friends will not last long.
