Many parents find that their children become very rebellious after puberty, always disobedient, always contradicting their parents, and not serious in their studies. After the child has a rebellious mentality, parents must not beat or scold the child, they should find the reason, otherwise the child’s rebellious situation will intensify and affect the physical and mental development of the child. Today, I will share with you what are the reasons for the rebellious psychology of teenagers?
What causes teenage rebellion
- The psychological characteristics of adolescence lead to
Adolescence is in the psychological “weaning period”. Children’s independence and self-awareness are increasing day by day. They will have many ideas of their own. They don’t like adults treating them as children, so they will appear more rebellious.
- Family factors
Some parents do not communicate with their children in everything. They feel that since the children are born by themselves, they must unconditionally listen to their own words, use a rude and imperative tone to make the children submit, and do not give the children any space for autonomy. There is great disgust and resistance, so there is a rebellious psychology. In some families, parents have long-term differences and often quarrel, which will make children anxious and often restless, so they usually behave rebelliously.
- Educational factors
Inappropriate forms, methods, and locations of parent or teacher education hurt the self-esteem of children, which will lead to great disgust and distrust in adolescent children, resulting in rebellion.
- Social factors
The inappropriate guidance of the media can also lead to rebellious mentality among teenagers. For example, some videos or film and television works try to beautify the personal behavior of the rebels, which will make the children appreciate this rebellious image very much, and thus appear rebellious behavior.
In daily life, the reason why teenagers appear rebellious is generally due to the heightened self-awareness of adolescence, poor communication between parents and children, not giving children any space for autonomy, and a bad family atmosphere. Teachers or parents do not teach children properly. of. Parents should understand the psychological characteristics of adolescent children, do not impose their own opinions on children, understand children, and actively communicate with children.
Above is what causes teenage rebellion.Parents should do a good job of psychological guidance according to the actual situation of the child.
