Who hasn’t been young? Most people have experienced the days of being frivolous and frivolous. Looking back on that period, it was really carefree and carefree. However, as parents, they have different views on their children’s rebellious psychology, and often use tough However, this method will have the opposite effect. In fact, since you are young, you should have an in-depth understanding of the child’s rebellious psychology. It is not difficult to understand the child’s rebellious psychology. Experts have proposed the following three methods , I hope that the majority of parents and friends can pay attention to:
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- Understand the reasons for rebellion. There are three reasons for rebellion. The first is curiosity. For example, the more criticized some unhealthy literary and artistic works are, the more people want to see them. It is because of curiosity. The second is the opposite emotions. No matter what you say, he is indifferent, thinking that you are hypocritical and critical. The last is the psychological need, the more the child can’t get it. The more things you want to get; the more things you can’t touch, the more you want to touch them; the more things you don’t want to know, the more you want to know. This is the general law of people’s psychological development. Because children are less rational, this desire is also stronger. .
- Understand the essence of the “psychological weaning” period. The “psychological weaning” period is a transition period for children from naive to mature. Generally speaking, the various psychological phenomena in the “psychological weaning” period reflect the psychology of children and adolescents This is a major change from being psychologically attached to parents to appearing independent intentions. When parents should cherish this period of their children, look at this period in a correct way, and adopt a welcoming attitude. For this reason, parents should see To the positive side of rebellious psychology, such as the curiosity that arises from rebellious psychology, it is a desire to know things and the driving force for knowledge. Rebellious psychology often has the characteristics of seeking differences and speculating, and it is the spark of children’s wisdom, created by The source, parents should pay attention to it, make the best use of the situation, and promote its success.
- Be good at understanding children.
- Parents should see the growth of their children, respect their self-esteem, establish a close and equal friendship with them, and allow their children to participate in the management of the family.
- Parents should believe that children have the ability to handle things independently, support them as much as possible, encourage and comfort them when they encounter difficulties or failures, and praise them immediately if they succeed.
- Parents must have the courage to ask their children for advice and have the courage to admit their faults.
