Nowadays, people are busy with work, sometimes work overtime on weekends, and like to stay in their own small room when they get off work or rest, so many people have no chance to fall in love, especially introverted girls. When I got older, I embarked on the road of blind date under the urging of my parents, but blind date is not so easy. In order not to be embarrassed, the editor has a few tips for introverted girls!
- You don’t have to ask questions, but you must answer them.
Blind date is the most afraid of the cold on the first date, which can make both parties feel very embarrassed. If you’re an introvert and aren’t used to dictating the direction of a conversation, then don’t ask questions. But if the other party asks you, you must answer all the questions. This is not only the basic etiquette of the conversation, but also an important aspect of gaining the other party’s favor.
- Don’t dare to look at each other because you are shy, look directly at each other generously, and talk easily.
What age is this, there is absolutely no myth that the shy rose blooms quietly. Now that you all choose to go on a blind date, throw away the goddamn restraint and shyness, look straight at each other, show your confidence, and talk to each other easily. If you’ve made it this far, congratulations, you’re more than half successful on your first date.
- Dress appropriately and try to choose the most comfortable clothes to wear, which will relieve the tension.
Dressing decently is bound to make a good impression on the other party. But while paying attention to dressing appropriately, don’t forget that it must be a material that you are comfortable wearing and a style you are familiar with, which will make you feel very secure and will not feel uneasy because of the clothes, which can relieve your nervousness.
- If the other party is not familiar with the topic, don’t look blank, smile and wait for the other party to finish before asking your question.
Because the occupation and growth environment of the blind date may be very different from yours, the topic of the other party’s conversation is likely to be a field that you are completely unfamiliar with. At this time, don’t show a blank look on your face, and don’t show that you have the slightest interest in this topic. not interested. To learn to respect each other, you can listen patiently and ask your questions after the other party has finished speaking. This is a good display of self-cultivation and personal qualities.
- If the other party makes an invitation to date again, don’t pretend to be reserved, and calmly agree to the other party’s invitation.
After accomplishing the above 4 points, this is already a happy date, and the other party is likely to invite you for the next date. At this time, don’t pretend to be reserved, accepting the other party’s well-intentioned invitation is not frivolous, just agree calmly.
