There will definitely be some conflicts between people, but the solution is not violence or cold war, but to see who can take a step back and who can take the initiative to give comity. This is a realization of etiquette, and the specific method is to apologize. Some People think that this is a shame. This view is very wrong. It is a kind of etiquette and a show of connotation when used for apology.
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- An apology is not a disgrace, but an expression of sincerity and sincerity. Big men sometimes apologize, and Churchill had a bad impression of Truman at first, but later he told Truman that he had underestimated him before, and this was an apology in a way of praise.
- Ask someone to apologize on your behalf. If it is inconvenient for you to come forward, you can ask a third party for help. You can express your apology or hint to another friend you are both familiar with and ask him to apologize to the other party for you.
- Exaggerate your fault The more you exaggerate your fault, the more the other party has to forgive you.
- It is a good way to take specific actions of compensation to send small gifts to the other party, and invite the other party to eat together. Specific actions can better show your sincerity.
- Compliment the other person for being generous. After being praised, most people will unconsciously do what they say.
- Apologize in time If you think someone has offended you, and the other party doesn’t apologize, then you should be calm, don’t be depressed, and don’t be angry, maybe the other party is having a hard time with how to apologize.
- If you are not wrong, don’t admit your mistake in order to make peace with others. This kind of practice is not good for anyone. You have to distinguish the difference between deeply sorry and having to apologize. You can express regret for some things, but you don’t have to. Apologize.
- Apologize in writing Sometimes saying “I’m sorry” is not enough. Writing it on paper is more important than saying it in your mouth. You can write an apology letter or Email to the other party to express your sincere apology. This This kind of non-face conversation can not only achieve the purpose of apology, but also avoid some embarrassing scenes.
- Giving the other party an opportunity to vent their unhappiness, letting the other party scold you, and expressing the anger in your heart is a good way to restore your friendship. Otherwise, the dissatisfaction will accumulate in your chest, and it will not dissipate for several years.
- Correcting mistakes and getting forgiveness Some mistakes cannot be forgiven by expressing apology to the other party. While expressing apology to the other party, it is often the most sincere, direct and convincing to take actual actions to correct mistakes. .
