Friendship is a special emotion that people have in their communication activities. Friendship is a touch of color in nature. Only a discerning craftsman can express it perfectly. Friendship is a beating note on a musical score, and a singer with delicate feelings can Express it as genuine and pure as possible. However, have you ever had such an experience? Originally, you went to a friend’s appointment in a cheerful and cheerful mood, but in the end, you were disappointed. Some people will blame themselves for this, but it is not always the case, and the problem may also lie with friends. According to American researchers, some of your friends’ words and actions can make you feel exhausted and discouraged. The researchers therefore remind people that it is best not to get too close to these five types of people.
- Sabotage type “Why do you dress like a village woman?” “Look at you, you always screw things up.” When you want to ask others for advice, these answers that pop up from your friends’ mouths will make you feel very uncomfortable. Fail, not only that, they like to criticize you in front of people. This kind of friend always seems to be more sophisticated than you, and looks like your staff advisor, but actually wants to belittle you in front of everyone. They are very jealous, so they are often cynical in their words in order to achieve psychological balance.
- Talking type When a large group of friends gather, there are always a few people. As soon as the chat box is opened, it will be like a surging river, so that other people have no chance to intervene. Such “talkative” friends are generally more anxious and psychologically called “restless”. Restlessness often makes him habitually occupy other people’s time and rob others of their feelings. But there are also some people who want to be the focus of everyone’s attention and deliberately steal the limelight from their friends.
- Selfish type You have been working hard all day, and you have already got into the bed. A “friend” calls and insists that you play with him all night; if you hesitate a little, they will ask you “are you a friend?” . This kind of friend is very selfish, and psychologically always feels that others get more and he gets less, and he feels unbalanced, so he will satisfy his injustice by arbitrarily manipulating others.
- Accustomed to breaking the contract When you get up early in the morning and come to the pre-appointed place in a hurry, you wait for the left and right to see no one. At the end, the other party said “I’m sorry, I have something to do”, which greatly reduced your mood. Such friends are mentally unstable and changeable in mood. At first, they feel that things are interesting and they go to the appointment quickly. After a few days, they feel bored and in no mood.
- Too sentimental sentimentality is not a disadvantage, but in the face of too sentimental friends, it often makes you feel that you have become a “trash can” for the other party to dump their bitter waters. The content of the chat is all complaints and complaints, and there is no sunny topic. Such friends usually have low self-esteem and do not have the courage to find solutions when encountering problems. If things go on like this, their bad mood will affect your mood and view of the world. If the “problem” friend affects your mood and life, you must learn to refuse. But refusing also pays attention to art, and it is especially important to pay attention not to accuse them in tough language, but to try to be euphemistic.
