Andy Williams, a student who shot and killed two classmates at Mountain High School in California, said he killed because he was depressed because of a broken love. Depression caused by adolescence love actually has early symptoms in 15% to 20% of adolescents. If the child is increasingly lonely, sleep more, diet or behavior changes, if these symptoms persist for more than two weeks, it is best to take them to see a psychiatrist. American experts finally advise: teenagers should not fall in love prematurely, they should actively seek their own interests and study hard. Advice: Learn to Protect Your Emotions There is no doubt that emotions become elusive during adolescence. The first turning point in life has come quietly. Teenagers are no longer children, the old system of life begins to disintegrate and has to be abandoned, and the new system is not yet fully established. This is when emotion becomes a strange attraction in your life. You won’t hesitate to get excited and excited about this new feeling. But you will find that this emotion can push your emotions to the extreme in certain situations. You can completely ignore it and treat both parties wanton in the name of “love”, and no one wants to control yourself.
Actually, this is very harmful. Reason: Due to the development of the body, especially the maturity of sexual development, adolescent boys and girls accumulate a lot of energy in their bodies, which is easy to be overexcited and cause emotional imbalance; on the other hand, their nervous systems are far from mature and cannot be Good control and regulation of emotions, that’s why. The solution is: you will get better when you grow up, but you can’t quench your thirst from afar.
Now there are several ways: be alone, talk to your emotions, accept your emotions, and change some of your thoughts in time. Talk to your girlfriend or good friend instead of venting your grievances. Premature sex can hinder love Everyone thinks that love can only be sex to a certain extent.
But Australian teenage expert Belinda Hanford has a more definite answer: having sex too early in a relationship will actually hinder your further love. In order to have a happy and healthy relationship, you need time to have fun together, understand each other and learn to take care of each other. Chances are you and your boyfriend disagree on when to get this far, but you have to work it out together. Remember: a boy worthy of love, first of all he will love you more than himself, if your choice is to take it slow, then he will definitely wait for you.
Parents are the ones who help their children the most. Parents are the ones who love you the most (maybe not the ones who understand you the most), which you will never understand until you become parents yourself (the DINK family is not included here). You will reflect on the conflict with your parents from the beginning of adolescence to the present, and there is something wrong with you. Parents are experienced people, and many things in life are similar, but in manic adolescence, parental experience is often a hindrance rather than a help. You’re going to have a completely different life from your parents, but you’ll eventually find that most people live the same life, and a few of the most courageous people live different lives, but at a high cost. It turns out that despite the generation gap, parents are often the ones who help their children the most. In fact, the same is true emotionally. Parents sometimes play a thankless role: mentally they have too many unscientific expectations of their children; mentally, too much self-sacrifice; and physically, they have to work and earn money against the clock. Imagine that the child can live a day in the life of a parent, cramming the bus, going to work, dealing with all kinds of errands, coming home, and endless housework, and talking about the experience of the child on the emotional side. As for the parents, try to live the life of a child for a day, studying hard, dealing with the pressure of exams, the nagging of parents, the scolding of teachers, and the troubles caused by the body during adolescence. It is estimated that both parties will have profound feelings. If they return to normal life with such a profound experience, I wonder if life will become incomparably better.
