In the hustle and bustle of a three-way world, most couples are already in the “pause phase” of sex.
However, have you ever thought that after a “sea change” in your body and mood, your partner’s intimate life has been given a chance to rediscover it?
First time intimacy again After the baby arrives, a sex break?
In the first few weeks after childbirth, this is not a problem for most couples.
Then, when the physical pain and discomfort have passed, there should be no obstacles to restarting sex from a medical perspective.
At this time, people feel as if they are back to the first night, the couple are reacquainting themselves with each other, rediscovering their body feelings.
Therefore, at this time, it is more necessary for two people to understand themselves and each other’s physical and psychological changes, so as to cooperate closely.
This is very valuable, because young parents will be born with a new discovery of sexual life, and will feel more intimate and pleasurable than ever before: 1. Childbirth shows the great potential of the female body when it is opened, when fluid flows from the body, and when the baby falls……
The process is usually painful, like tearing the body.
The experience “upends” the rules of everyday life and can be beneficial to sex.
When many women have their first child, it’s like they have a “sexual genesis,” a new chapter in their sex life.
At this time, they feel more orgasm.
2. After a couple goes through childbirth together, it will bring their lives closer together. The man learned about the difficulties his partner has endured and how strong they are through ten months of “accompanying”.
So they become even more obsessed with their wives.
The love between husband and wife is thus further deepened.
3. Women who have given birth have better control over their bodies than before. In the run-up to childbirth, expectant mothers learn to consciously contract and relax the pelvis. This includes control of the muscular layers of the pelvis, the urethra, contractile muscles, and the vagina.
After giving birth, women will be able to use this “skill” in their daily lives.
When THE FEMALE CONTROLS THE VAGINA THAT IS FULL OF SENSITIVE NERVE ENDINGS CONSCIOUSLY, MAKE LOVE WILL BE MORE YOUR PERSON IS FASCINATED.
In addition, practicing pelvic retraction and release is very helpful for tightening the vagina.
When a couple decides to have a child together, it means that their love has gone through the “experimental period”, because having a child requires more joint decision than getting married.
In this “decision” process, the relationship becomes more stable and reliable.
5, the baby woke up the gentle feeling of touching the baby’s tender and warm skin is a kind of enjoyment, and when the mother feeds the baby, experiences the feeling of the child sucking the nipple, such as the same sex stimulation.
Contact with children can make most women feel their sexuality more intensely or discover new things about their desires.
Some women complain about their lack of interest in sex in the months, even years, after giving birth.
Yes, it’s a bad situation.
But it is possible to awaken your dormant sexual desires.
And most of all: young mothers need to learn to relax and be tolerant, to let life take its course, and not to be too demanding or overly perfective.
In this way, mothers are able to focus their body’s energy on arousing their body’s sexual desires and satisfying their own.
These are also good for your health, and every new mother can do them.
1. Forget the false notion of perfection. It’s a fact of life that a 35-year-old mom’s body can’t compete with that of an 18-year-old model.
Still, many women find it difficult to accept the physical and mental changes that come with the birth of a child.
Especially when they interact with young women, they feel a lot of pressure.
In fact, only when women can accept their own body, can they rediscover the vitality and bright spot of life, so as to be able to experience love and sex in a different way.
This certainly doesn’t mean that young mothers can take extra weight after childbirth for granted, or let their legs swell and breasts sag.
A mother should still take care of herself and make her skin and body feel comfortable.
Some parenting media or classes for expectant mothers all mention and provide training such as “pregnant dance” or “partner massage”, or “progressive muscle relaxation” and various calisthenics, which achieve the purpose of relaxation and movement through soothing and enjoyable activities.
This can be very helpful for women during and after childbirth.
Some women have a few minutes a day to relax, such as relaxing music, like a cat on the sofa or bed, is enough, this is more enjoyable and relaxing than exercise.
2. Make Time for Love It’s hard to measure how much a young mother can gain by freeing herself and her partner for a few hours, giving time to intimacy and sex.
Don’t forget that love today is different from the love of our grandparents. Love is the sole basis of marriage, so don’t neglect to nurture love and the sex life of your partner.
Spending some time each day snuggling comfortably together can get both women and men interested in sex quickly.
Sex doesn’t have to be late at night, when both partners are too tired to keep their eyes open.
So feel free to leave the baby with a babysitter for a few hours or drop the baby off at grandma and grandpa’s for the night.
A good night together as a couple is not only good for mom and Dad, but it’s also good for the baby, because nothing gives a baby more care and joy than a happy parent.
It takes at least two months for a woman’s exhausted body to recover after giving birth.
It takes six weeks for the uterus to demobilize, and six weeks after delivery the lochia stops.
When the lochia has stopped and the vaginal sutures have healed, there is no medical problem with sex.
However, many women still feel that their bodies have not returned to the original state, for example, the posture is far from demobilized, some women will sweat a lot at this time, because the body has to excrete the accumulated water during pregnancy.
Many lactating women also feel insecure, not only because of the baby crying, milk leaking from the nipple and other embarrassments, but also because some lactating women find that, despite the excitement of sex, their vagina is no longer moist, because lactation reduces estrogen production.
At this time, you can try to use softening cream or massage oil.
To avoid squeezing the vaginal suture, place a pillow under your buttocks.
If young mothers still experience pain, they should consult a gynecologist about the cause of the pain.
Sometimes, the vaginal suture needs to be reexamined.
If vaginal tissue continues to relax, it can sometimes be restored with hormone therapy.
Only in very rare cases is surgery necessary to recover.
