Netizens doubt to see your blog, feeling very deep.
I’ve been so stuck in my relationship that I’m really afraid I’m going to go crazy.
I AM AN introverted man, although already 26 years old, can never talk about a girlfriend, more have not done that kind of thing between men and women.
These years of experience, also love people, but only in the heart of love, but no action;
I was also loved by others, but because of my hesitation, the other side did not take that step.
I’ve always wanted to love and be loved.
Last year the family introduced a girl.
Because of the telephone and Internet connections, the relationship quickly heated up.
I felt I couldn’t live without her and wanted to have a future with her.
But in the course of our conversation, she confessed to me that she had had a boyfriend in the past and was no longer a virgin.
When I knew that, I cried tears of pain.
After many days of painful thinking, finally believe that he is love her, so continue to contact with her.
But I worry that she’s not committed to me (and that she’s in the same city as her ex-boyfriend).
About two months later, we met for the first time and had sex.
But that shadow haunts me.
One part of me wants to be with her forever, and the other part of me thinks she’s not the one.
Our relationship had its ups and downs.
She says she’s true to me, but I always feel like she’s holding back.
On Valentine’s Day, she sent me a lot of messages, but I didn’t respond properly because we had argued the day before.
She wrote in her diary that she was sad and in pain because I didn’t respond properly.
When I saw it, I was so moved that I thought she still loved me.
So I firmly and her together with faith.
But later, a chance, I saw her QQ chat record, she chatted with a man, and said “go out on a date” and so on, because the man is still at work, so no.
I asked her tentatively, and she said it was a joke.
In fact, I also believe that there is a joke in it.
But this kind of thing, like the April Fool’s Day courtship, said is a joke is a joke, said is serious is serious, no one will lose face.
My feelings for her have cooled down and I really don’t want to talk to her anymore.
But she is the same as before, every day to give me information, call me every day, say she loves me.
I seemed to still love her, so I continued to connect with her.
But these shadows were never erased, so I often tried her, but she never gave me a satisfactory answer.
When we eat together, shopping together, I hope she can pick up a bite of food for me, wipe a sweat for me, but no, she only know to do their own, but I often do these things for her.
I’m really starting to wonder again.
Every time I sent her to the car, I hope she can talk with me outside before the car, but she is eager to get on the car, would rather wait for ten minutes in the car, also do not come down and talk with me for a while, I have been waiting until the car go no shadow, still stay in place, every time have the feeling of tears.
When she dropped me off, I wanted to talk down here, but she urged me to get in the car so she could hurry home.
Indeed, every time I leave, I worry that I will not see her again, but she is no different from the original.
After many times, I really doubted it.
So I asked her directly, but she said that everyone has their own different expressions.
After we fought about it, I really didn’t want to talk to her anymore, but she kept texting and calling me like she always did, telling me she loved me.
After each quarrel, she was the first to say this to me, which made me feel a little moved, that she still had feelings for me, and a sense of attachment to her.
But these things go back and forth.
I’m really upset. I’m afraid I’m going to go crazy.
I’ve never been in a relationship or had any experience with it.
I am very lazy, once used to a thing, is not willing to change.
I think I’m used to her. I’m not comfortable without her.
But when I was with her, I always felt that she was not true to me.
I sometimes wished to be cruel, to have no more contact with her, to cut her off altogether, or to marry her, and live in peace.
However, such a hasty decision, can guarantee future happiness and long-term?
I hesitated again.
I’m in this pain every day, really, and it’s killing me.
Every day’s work and study were all thrown aside. I wanted to calm down, but I couldn’t.
Because my personality is too introverted, I do not want to communicate with people around me.
I feel myself really going crazy, if this goes on, I really will go crazy!
I really hope you can give me some Pointers and help me analyze it.
After reading your blog, I feel a sense of belonging, so I dare to write this letter to you.
Maybe I talk too much, but can you feel the pain in my heart?
I’m sure you can relate.
So I am eagerly looking forward to your reply.
I really can’t stand it!
Experts answer she said yes, each in a different way to express love, look at things point of view is different, you need her understand you, do you think the way she loves you, was a good idea but rather some selfish, who didn’t change their power for who, if not necessarily can do it, you has to find a perfect love is not criticize you, she is you criticize her.
Before in question, or she is not, you care about most you psychologically has denied to his trust, and a bit of trouble, is in the storm, give yourself pressure than her man to more difficult to bear, love the deeper the more selfish, the more afraid of losing the bear, because a woman is able to take the initiative and good does not mean that her fault,
She just didn’t want to miss out on something else.
In fact, in front of every man, the first time they belong to his woman, whether introverted or extroverted love there is always someone can sense.
So, don’t deny everything yourself, men can talk to strangers, why can’t women, what should be yours is yours forever.
