Reuniting two men and women who are either unhappy with their marriage or passionate about a new partner is fraught with risk.
Because each is taking the love and complaint dispute of original marriage, it is very difficult to make a clean break, and unhappy marriage experience, make it hard to avoid such as scared birds, increase imagination space, especially the female often better than the male, can see the situation of remarried man.
Then some people can not bear the wear and tear in marriage, such as the passion after the fade of the flat, living habits are opposite, economic pressure followed by one another, it is easy to be slightly understanding or conditions, qualifications of the opposite sex moved.
Obviously, the variables of remarriage will be more than overmarried, including the former husband, ex-wife’s “shadow” influence, two people a mood to take the matter;
Or each with the previous marriage overcorrection, such as property zero need to struggle again, resulting in the cold each other, or the abandonment of the criminal record, resulting in the deep insecurity of each other and more urgent and so on.
In modern divorce cases, it is mostly women who divorce men, accounting for about 80 percent. Regardless of the reason, some men will take care to cede all assets to women for the sake of face or real sense of shame, which must be a problem for the new wife.
The woman’s mind has since become a thorn in the marriage, nothing will poke the man, once the man has any handle to fall, the woman can be endless angry down.
So THE PSYCHOLOGY OF reMARRIED MEN AND women needs multiple “correction”, the general man is better, after all, the attention is still mostly on the work career, will not spend a lot of time and energy to stare at a woman.
But the fact that women generally regard emotion as the main item of life, it is really easy to appear cup bow snake shadow reaction, presenting the “foolish woman” state that is bound to push her husband farther and farther.
So I always sympathize with men, they do not know how to become a good partner with women, when they go home in the limited time of the couple together, generally what they want most is quiet, warm, no pressure, rather than nagging, complaining, suspicion, dredging up the past.
Some well-trained man, may be able to patiently listen to his wife say things, and then should and two sentences, let the woman feel valued, or with a snack with the wife’s interest, find two intersection points, to disperse her insecurity, can reduce some trouble.
In a word, the happiness of remarriage, men and women are more need IQ and emotional intelligence, so it is necessary to self-cultivation.
