If you get married, will you find an older leftover girl? Some people may think that the leftover girl has not been married for so many years. There must be some problems with her, and it must be difficult to get along with her personality. In fact, this is just a wrong guess by everyone. Many of their own conditions are very good, but it is precisely because the conditions are too good that they are easy to scare away men. There is nothing wrong with leftover women, and mature women have an advantage.
Enjoy the happiness of flash marriage
If an older leftover girl wants to get married, she needs to have one quality: sharp eyes and quick hands. It means that you will never hesitate when you fall in love with Mr. Ruyi, and you will take action when it is time to take action. Lightning love, lightning marriage, everything has to be done with speed. You don’t have any extra youth to spend with him, so come up with a trick to let him get into the trap of your marriage. Flash marriages are happy. Because the love time is short, he has entered the marriage before the aesthetic fatigue period. After marriage, he continues to enjoy the sweetness of love and successfully passes the running-in period. At least it’s better than those who get married after a marathon love affair.
disadvantage
Leftover girls, are they really as praised and praised in public opinion? Leftover girls are really the standard of fashionable life? Maybe you are still indulging in self-intoxication and feeling good inner dreams, but the reality of the world has already abandoned you. Just when the media was shouting about the seriousness of the current situation of “leftover women” and the personality of the “leftover women” in the era, they don’t know that you, as a leftover woman, are already at a disadvantage in society.
Selfish and timid people who don’t know how to pay
It is said that all good men are married, but I always ignore the truth, “behind a good man there is a good woman”! Perhaps, it is really unfair that Nuwa created people. Whether it is a man or a woman, there is always one person in a marriage who pays more, and when there is one or two fools who are “willing to pay without thinking of anything in return”, marriage is more precious.
Narcissistic and ignorant narcissus
As a leftover girl, you always sigh that “there are many temptations in the world, and true feelings are more painful”, but it is precisely after you have been played by life that you can think about the pain without knowing the truth, and you still don’t understand the truth of “plain is a blessing”. Maybe someone around you has told you about it, but you are always deceived by your good feelings, arrogant, almost narcissistic, believing in your beauty and your equal partner, but you who only focus on love ignore the most important part of marriage. The important truth is the vulgar insipidity.
The sadness of being betrayed by stealth
It’s not sad to be a leftover girl, but sadly, there is endless indifference and pitiful under the surface of others’ perfunctory and praise. Not only did you not marry a good man, but you couldn’t get married even if you were married, there were no people around you who shared the sadness in your heart, there was no genuine person who dared to say your true shortcomings, and there was no… You said, is it not sad that you are proud of being a leftover girl? You Don’t feel heartache for the glitz around you, the invisible betrayal that never speaks the truth? You can only say good things about you, are you not sad?
