Through follow-up surveys, social psychologists have found that in interpersonal relationships, people with unhealthy mental states often cannot have harmonious, friendly and trustworthy interpersonal relationships. s help. In order to have a harmonious and happy interpersonal relationship, social psychologists have summarized the following common bad psychological states, and ask female friends to try to avoid them when interacting with others.
- Inferiority
Some female friends have low self-esteem in their interactions with others due to factors such as appearance, body shape, and self-cultivation. They dare not express their own opinions, hesitate to do things, lack courage, and are used to agreeing with others without their own opinions. Inability to provide valuable opinions and suggestions to others during communication, people feel that getting along with them is a waste of time, and they will naturally avoid them.
- Jealousy
Some people say that jealousy is the nature of women, especially in the process of dealing with people, female friends should pay special attention to this! In dealing with people, the following situations often occur, in which the advantages and achievements of others are not praised but jealous , expecting others to be inferior to oneself or even suffer misfortune. Just imagine, a jealous person will never give sincere behavior in interpersonal communication, give others warmth, and naturally he will not be likable.
- Suspicion
Suspicion is the most taboo among friends, and suspicion of others for no reason. Some people always suspect that others are speaking ill of themselves, and have no reason to suspect that someone has done something unfavorable to them. Such a person likes to gossip and make friends think she is a troublemaker to avoid.
- Selfishness
Some people always want to get something good when they get along with others, either for someone else’s position, or to get some benefit from others, or for one thing. This kind of selfish mentality can easily hurt others. Once others recognize their true colors, they will resolutely cut off their interactions with them.
- Game psychology
In communicating with others, he lacks sincerity, treats other people’s friendship as a child’s play, holds the attitude of playing life, no matter who he communicates with, he has no deep psychological communication, and likes to make superficial articles. When others need help, they tend to run away, and such people cannot make true friends.
- Apathy
Gufang admires herself, thinking that she is a phoenix among people, an immortal in the sky, and the best in the world, and regards interacting with people as charity or favor to others. I feel very good about myself, always aloof, holding an air of pride and indifference, so that others are afraid and unwilling to approach, naturally I will not have friends.
- Prejudice
To self-liberalism, everything is indulgent; to Marxism-Leninism, he is critical of everything, and is extremely mean. Because of one thing, you hold a grudge against others, and you feel resentment in your heart, and you decide that the other party is not worth interacting with. Such people tend to go to a dead end in interpersonal communication. Because no one will never make mistakes, if you don’t know how to forgive, you will not have long-lasting friendship.
