Interpersonal communication is a very important thing in life. Whether it is self-development, communication with others, and exchange of information, interpersonal communication is inseparable. Everyone also wants to have good social skills, expect a harmonious family relationship, work relationship and so on. In the actual interpersonal communication process, there are always more or less small problems that affect the normal progress of the communication, so what should you pay attention to? Let’s take a look at these points. inferiority complex. A large number of social surveys show that in interpersonal communication, most people with good karma have the characteristics of optimism, frankness and intelligence. And some less popular people also have shortcomings such as selfishness and low self-esteem. Inferiority accounts for a large proportion, and they do not have a correct understanding of their own abilities and knowledge, thus denying themselves, fearing rejection and contempt from others, and wanting to be affirmed by others. To overcome “inferiority”, we must first know that “no one is perfect” and everyone has shortcomings.
Secondly, we must “learn from each other’s strengths to make up for our weaknesses”, and don’t use your own weaknesses to compare the strengths of others. As time goes by, people’s confidence will get worse and worse. If you deny yourself, you unilaterally deny everything you have. You should correctly recognize that you are good at it. things, cultivate your confidence, see the wise and think together, and know that anything is possible. In the end, you should exercise your psychological endurance. Don’t deny yourself because of a single failure or a lack of one aspect. Failure is the mother of success. If you try many times, you will always see sunshine.
Keep promises and treat people with sincerity. There are more and more exchanges between people. Credit and integrity are the most important qualities of communication and communication. We must strictly abide by the credibility of words and keep promises. If we do not keep our word, we will lose many opportunities. In the process of communication, both parties also need to be sincere to others. If they are both false, it is like groping for each other in the dark. No one trusts the other, and a barrier is built between themselves and others. Therefore, treating people with sincerity can make communication more efficient. Consider the feelings of others and be appropriate in your words and deeds. In the process of communication, you should consider yourself as well as others. We should respect even those closest to us. If you only care about yourself, the relationship between the two parties will become precarious, and there will be feelings of disgust. Therefore, we must consider the feelings of others, so that a good communication environment will be maintained in social interaction. Being decent means that you should pay attention to your words and deeds when communicating, and don’t talk big or be petty, which will lead to a disadvantageous position in communication. Try to be as generous as possible and keep everything calm. Often give a lot of points to their own image.
There are more important things in social interaction, but if you can do these points, most people can feel like a duck in water and grasp their own proportions, so as to make interpersonal relationships more harmonious, and communication can be unimpeded.
