Many people in life complain about unsatisfactory work and that the workplace is like a battlefield. In fact, this is your psychology. The following behavior patterns will become a fatal factor for your unemployment and seriously hinder your career.
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- Always feel that they are not good enough. Although they are smart and experienced, once they are promoted, they have no confidence and feel that they are incompetent. In addition, he has no ambition to climb up, and always feels that his position is too high, maybe a level or two lower may be more suitable, this kind of psychology will eventually lead to your unemployment.
- Look at the world in black and white. The world in the eyes of people is black and white. They believe that everything should be judged objectively like a test with standardized answers. Such people always fight alone and often lose battles. eventually become unemployed.
- The endless pursuit of excellence This kind of person requires himself to be a hero, and also strictly requires others to reach his level. At work, they demand “more, faster, better” for themselves and their subordinates. As a result, the subordinates were dragged to exhaustion and “jumped to survive”, and those who stayed were even more tired. As a result, the turnover rate has increased steadily, causing a burden on the enterprise.
- Avoid conflict unconditionally This type of person generally avoids conflict at all costs. In fact, different opinions and conflicts can stimulate vitality and creativity. A supervisor who should have been fighting for his subordinates may be looked down upon by subordinates or other departments in order to avoid conflicts. In order to maintain the peace, they suppress their feelings, and as a result, they severely lack the ability to face and resolve conflicts. Eventually, this inability to resolve conflict spills over into marriage, parent-child, sibling, and friendship relationships.
- Tyrannically suppress opponents. They are tough in words and deeds, ruthless, just like a bulldozer. Anyone who blocks the way will be leveled. Because they are rampant, aggressive, and do not know the skills of detours, the result may hurt their own career. career, leading to unemployment.
- Naturally like to attract attention. This kind of person strives unremittingly for a certain ideal. In a stable society or business, they are always quick to take a stand, feel that compromise is humiliation, and if no one pays attention, they will intensify until someone notices.
