Interpersonal communication is a compulsory course for everyone in today’s society, because society is a group of people interacting with each other. As long as you live in society and you are a member of society, interpersonal communication is inevitable. The quality of interpersonal communication will have a great impact on a person’s life, so what are the psychological misunderstandings of interpersonal communication? How to deal with interpersonal relationships so that you can be in a harmonious atmosphere? Below we will do specifics for you ‘s introduction. The psychological misunderstandings of interpersonal communication are as follows:
- Selfishness, selfishness, and utilitarianism in interpersonal communication: some people’s congresses always think of themselves when interacting with others, only care about their own needs and interests, emphasize their own feelings, and regard others as their goals and satisfy their own desires. Tool of. Disrespect the value and price of others, and ignore the situation and interests of others. In communication, when no one in Japan and China gather with their companions, regardless of the occasion or other people’s emotions, when they are happy, they talk eloquently, and when they dance and are happy, they are depressed or lose their temper. Such people lack a correct understanding of themselves in their interactions. No matter how shrewd they are and how much they have mastered, they will never establish a firm and lasting good interpersonal relationship with others. Only those who are kind-hearted, treat others with sincerity, and put themselves in other people’s shoes can get good friends.
- Indifference, withdrawn, closed in interpersonal communication: some people always like to cover up their real thoughts, emotions and needs when interacting with others. In their opinion, everything in the world is so boring, boring, Bland and meaningless. They often lack an arrogant attitude and focus only on their own inner experience, and their behavior and habits are sometimes difficult to understand. The failure of this kind of interpersonal communication lies in the psychological establishment of a barrier, which closes the self and cannot communicate with others. Therefore, they only have the “transparency” of themselves, open their hearts, and use enthusiasm and frankness to win the understanding of others. This proper self-disclosure can increase a person’s attractiveness.
- Inferiority, suspiciousness, vigilance and hostility in interpersonal communication: In life, some people lack a correct evaluation of themselves, and are often too demanding of themselves and underestimate themselves. For example, some young people feel that their body and appearance are not attractive, or they feel that they are lacking in ability, and they feel inferior. However, in fact, they are not necessarily unattractive, poor in ability, or low in career achievement. On the contrary, their expectations are too high. , unrealistic, too sensitive to other people’s advertisements, always thinking that others look down on them. In fact, in their deep psychological experience, they look down on themselves, they are afraid of setbacks and failures, especially in front of authority, strong people or some arrogant people, they always feel at a loss, sometimes they show a kind of alert and hostile mood . Often in their own minds, they imagine other people’s dissatisfaction with themselves, and then look for real evidence of Chandong in life. Sometimes they impose some out-of-the-box facts on others, and even compromise the goodwill of others. If things go on like this, they will limit their communication to a small circle such as parents and family, and some will develop a world-weary mentality.
The above three psychological misunderstandings of interpersonal communication are several interpersonal communication mistakes that people often make in today’s society. I hope that readers can recognize their own interpersonal communication problems, so as to solve their own problems, and get rid of these three psychological misunderstandings as soon as possible. Create a harmonious interpersonal network, which will not only make you feel very happy every day, but also help your career a lot. I hope people can pay attention to it.
