Adults think that modern children are getting overwhelming love, eating well, dressing well, and being extremely happy. But sometimes children also have psychological pressure. As parents, we should appropriately decompress our children and let them grow up freely. Many people think that preschool children have no academic burden; they don’t worry about food and clothing, and they are cared for in every possible way. How can they be stressed? However, while modern children are getting overwhelming love, they are increasingly losing the ability to play as they please. freedom; while getting a lot of toys, they lose the opportunity to hug, play and talk with their parents; in kindergarten, there are sometimes problems between teachers and children, children and children, such as being criticized and not being friendly with children Getting along, etc., these are the reasons that make children feel stressed. When children feel stressed, they often cannot speak clearly due to their limited language skills, so they sometimes cannot get timely help from adults. Therefore, when the stress is too high or lasts too long, the child will have physical or psychological problems such as depression, anorexia, sleep disturbance, etc., which will seriously damage the child’s physical and mental health.
As a parent, if you can carefully observe your child’s words and deeds, you can detect whether your child is under pressure and how much the pressure is. When children are found to have some of the above reactions, parents should contact and communicate with their children more to help them relieve stress naturally. For example, you can give the child pen and paper and let him draw as he likes; give the child a beginning of the story and let him continue the story; let the child propose the content and play of the game and play with the child; when the child wakes up from a dream, comfort him After that, let him talk about what he dreamed about. And don’t interrupt, make suggestions or draw conclusions when your child is narrating. These activities can help parents to better understand their children’s inner feelings, understand the reasons that make children feel pressure, so as to help children reduce or relieve pressure. Today’s children are facing various pressures. Parents should pay attention to their children and not “lock up” them.
