Interpersonal relationship counseling has always been one of the most popular items in psychological counseling, because in this complex society, if you want to survive well, you need to know how to deal with interpersonal relationships and get along well with people around you. And many people have some problems with interpersonal relationships, so they want to do interpersonal psychological counseling. In fact, in interpersonal relationships, there are many psychological phenomena that can be followed by rules. Mastering the mysteries can help you improve your interpersonal relationships.
The following will introduce the mystery of three kinds of workplace psychology: primacy effect primacy effect has a greater impact on people in interpersonal communication, and is a more important term in communicative psychology. The impression left by people in the first communication between people forms and occupies a dominant position in each other’s mind. This effect is the primacy effect. What we often say about “leaving a good impression on people” generally refers to the first impression, and there is a primacy effect here. Therefore, in social activities such as making friends, recruiting, and applying for jobs, we can use this effect to show people an excellent image and lay a good foundation for future exchanges. Of course, this is only a temporary behavior in social activities, and deeper communication requires your hardware to be complete.
Proximity effect If you want to keep people’s good first impression of you, it requires you to strengthen the quality of speech, manners, self-cultivation, etiquette and other aspects, otherwise it will lead to the negative impact of another effect, that is, proximity effect. due to effect. The recency effect is the opposite of the primacy effect, which refers to the impression left by the last meeting in a relationship, and this impression will remain in the other person’s mind for a long time. Friends who haven’t seen you for many years, the deepest impression in your mind is actually the parting scene; a friend always makes you angry, but when you talk about the reasons for your anger, you can only say two or three things. This is also a kind of The performance of the recency effect. Using the recency effect, when you part with your friend, give him good wishes, and your image will be beautified in his heart. Halo Effect If the recency effect can be used to beautify your image, then, in the eyes of others, you may become a “halo” character, which is the halo effect. Also known as the halo effect, it means that when you have a good impression of a person, it will be difficult to feel his shortcomings, as if there is a halo around him, this kind of psychology is the halo effect. “Xishi is in the eyes of the lover”, when a lover is in love, it is difficult to find the other’s shortcomings, thinking that everything he does is good, and what he does is right, even what others think are shortcomings, in the other party It seems that it doesn’t matter, this is the performance of a halo effect. However, the halo effect has certain negative effects. Under this psychological effect, it is difficult for you to distinguish between good and bad, true and false, and it is easy to be used by others. Therefore, in the process of social interaction, we must have a “harmful heart, and a defensive heart”, and have a certain sense of fortification, that is, people’s fortification psychology. After reading the above content, have you mastered the above-mentioned psychological phenomena?
