The emotional world of human beings has always been very rich, especially between opposite-sex interactions, so what needs to be paid attention to for opposite-sex interactions, especially for opposite-sex interactions in adolescence?
First of all, it is necessary to correct the attitude, cultivate a healthy sense of communication, and dilute the awareness of the other party’s gender. Think innocent, and you will naturally be generous when communicating. Secondly, extensive exchanges should be avoided, individual contacts should be avoided, and the level of exchanges should be shallow rather than deep. Extensive contact will help us to know and understand more of the opposite sex, have a basic overall grasp of the opposite sex, and learn to distinguish the opposite sex. Some people look like a charming little handsome guy, but they will find him flashy in their interactions, and some people have excellent academic performance, but they are arrogant and bossy. If you only have limited and small-scale individual exchanges, it is inevitable that you will “see only the trees but not the forest”, and the understanding of the opposite sex is not only limited, but may also be biased. Therefore, taking advantage of every opportunity of collective activity to consciously communicate on a wider interpersonal scale is what we need very much.
Thirdly, the relationship should be estranged but not far away. If you are at a distance, grasp the psychological distance between the two, and exclude contacts that make each other feel too close and cause mood swings. If we find that the other party’s signs are wrong in our communication, we must adjust our attitude so that the communication can return to a state of calm and calm. This is more conducive to our growth.
