A wife’s nagging, criticism, sarcasm, and ridicule to her husband, like water droplets passing through a stone, is the smartest way to kill. Whether a man’s marriage can be happy or not depends on his wife’s temper and character. Even if a woman has all the virtues in the world, if she is short-tempered, nags about little things, likes judgment and has an isolated personality, all her virtues become zero and negative.
Many men lose their spirits and give up the chance to fight because his wife is always throwing cold water on his hopes and aspirations, she is always critical, wondering why the husband can’t have as much money as the men she knows, or her Why can’t my husband write bestsellers or find good jobs. Such a wife will only disappoint her husband. Really, nagging and criticism bring more misfortune to the family than luxury and waste.
There is a well-known psychologist in the United States who has conducted a detailed investigation and research on more than 1,500 couples. The results showed that husbands cite nagging and criticism as their wives’ biggest weaknesses. Gallup polls came to the same conclusion: Men ranked nagging and criticism as the number one flaws in women. In tests, it was also found that no other personality would cause such damage to family life.
But since ancient cave dwellings, wives have tried to influence their husbands in noisy ways. Socrates spent most of his time hiding under the Athenian tree to philosophize, escaping his grumpy wife Rancibal in this way. Such excellent bigwigs as French Emperor Napoleon III and US President Abraham Lincoln were also nagged by their wives. Augustus Caesar divorced his second wife because he really couldn’t stand her temper.
Women always try to change their husbands by nagging. However, since ancient times, this method has no effect unless the sun comes out from the west. An old friend told me that his wife always looked at all the work he did with contempt and ridicule, and his career was almost destroyed by his wife.
Originally, he was a salesman, he liked what he was selling, and he was passionate about selling to people. When he came home at night, he hoped for his wife’s encouragement, but the wife said: Hello, our genius, how’s business today? Did you bring in a lot of commissions or just bring back the training of the business manager I think you know pay the rent next week!
This went on for several years. Sometimes mocked by his wife, this friend is still struggling. Now he holds the position of vice president in a famous company in the country. What about his wife? That’s right. He had divorced her long ago and married a young girl again, his first wife could not give him.
In fact, his first wife lost her husband for unknown reasons. I lived frugally, made cattle and horses for him, and after so many years of hardship, she said to her friend: As a result, when he became famous, he left me and went to find a woman younger than me. I didn’t expect him to be such a person.
If the psychologist told her that it was her own nagging and criticism that made her husband leave her, not other women, she would not believe that she was killed. But that was the real reason he left her. She nags and criticizes him in a contemptuous way, and her confidence in men is undoubtedly a long-term abuse and torture, and there is no more terrible torture to a man’s self-esteem than a difficult torture. Recently, the son of another old friend went through the same experience. He was a young man in his twenties who got a job in an advertising agency.
As the business is very competitive, he needs the comfort and love of his wife to keep the courage to fight. However, despite his very positive and intentional attitude, she impatiently thought he was moving too slowly. Under the ridicule and condemnation of his wife, his courage faded away. He told me the hardest thing about him was his wife’s daily cynicism, which completely eroded his self-confidence. He started to lose faith in his work and eventually lost his job. His wife soon negotiated a divorce with him.
After he divorced his wife, it took a long time for him to gradually regain his self-confidence. Just like a seriously ill person slowly recovering his spirit, I believe that after he leaves such a wife, he will gradually regain his old self-confidence. The most destructive nagging, critical approach is to compare your husband to other men. Why can’t I make more money? Mr. Li has been promoted two levels, you only have one. My brother bought a fur coat for my sister-in-law.
Of course, my brother is smart, he knows how to make money, but you are as stupid as a cow. If you marry Mr. Chen, you will definitely be able to live a more luxurious and comfortable life. These words are really the most advanced killing method, and also the stunt of killing happiness and happiness. Wang Dan has helped 12,000 people.
