Mingguang and I have been married for nine years and we have always been good, at least I thought we were.
We are free love, the economic basis is also reasonable, plus a clever daughter, we are recognized as a happy family.
To tell you the truth, after so many years of marriage, some couples may have already responded to the old saying of “left hand feels right hand” and become numb, but we are not like this.
Although we are an “old married couple”, we still maintain many of the dating habits.
For example: every Valentine’s Day, each other’s birthday, will give each other gifts;
Whenever he was away on business, he would call me every night to say good night.
If life gets dull, we put the kids with the elderly, watch a movie or arrange a short outing…
I’m glad I found him, because I know all too well that there are so many unhappy marriages and couples going their separate ways all around me.
I’m so lucky compared to them.
Maybe God will be jealous, it has robbed me of happiness.
It was last October that I first noticed a change in my husband, who began to avoid me.
I mean, we’re still on good terms, but I can tell the difference.
Sure enough, two days before his birthday, he “won” an opportunity to go on a business trip.
I said this because I learned from a chat with one of his colleagues that he did not have to go on this business trip, but he strongly requested it, and the leader agreed.
I began to wonder, why did he do this?
On his birthday, I sent him three messages full of blessings, and he only replied with a “yes”.
I am more aware of the weird here, so I call my best friend Honghong, Honghong said he went out, she told me not to think about it, and she will find me to talk about it when she comes back.
Honghong is my classmate. Our friendship has been kept from middle school till now.
She was my maid of honor when I got married, but her own marriage wasn’t so happy.
The year before, she divorced, reportedly because he had another love.
From then on, HongHONG got in touch with our old friends much more closely. We were considerate of her and often took her to various parties.
Because we were on the best of terms, we often invited her over for dinner when she was alone, and sometimes stayed her over when it was too late.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having enough room at home anyway.
Unexpectedly, I was the Wolf into the house!
He later told me that if I hadn’t been so close to Honghong at that time, maybe none of this would have happened.
But now that it has happened, there is no use saying anything.
I put down the red phone more uneasy, somehow I suddenly realized that something was wrong.
Ming Guang is on a business trip, and Hong Hong is also in the field, will they…
The thought swirled in my mind, and I tried to drive it away, but in vain.
So, I inquired the specific train number of his return journey through the colleague of Mingguang, and then asked for leave to meet him at the railway station.
When I saw with my own eyes Mingguang and Honghong walking through the exit, talking and laughing, everything became clear.
Ming Guang and I went home, I asked him to give me an explanation.
He also admitted that he was sorry for me, but said that it happened because I had once played a small sex.
He reminded me that it was last summer, and I had been fighting with him for a whole week about something.
Now that I think about it, I don’t even remember why it happened, that’s all I remember.
Of course, he had to apologize afterwards, but he must have been reluctant because, according to him, it was my fault.
I vaguely remembered my own that vexatious, as if in a fit of anger also took the children back to her mother’s home to live for a few days, and later in his plea to return home.
It is such a humble and even long forgotten storm, became the fuse of bad results.
${FDPageBreak} Red Red came for a few days when I was back at my mother’s house.
Bright light to complain to her, she promised bright light to persuade me.
Later, they cooked several meals for Ming Guang at home, saying that they could not bear to see him cold pot cold stove.
Ming Guang thanked her and invited her several times in return.
In this way, two people behind my back to date has become a routine.
“11” big vacation time, they actually broke through the last line of defense of men and women.
I was furious. They were the people I trusted the most, and they did this to me!
When I was so good to Honghong, even when I had something to call for help is the first one is her, she is exactly the bomb hidden in my side.
I was going to ask Honghong to settle the score, but Mingguang pulled me back. He said that this matter could not be completely blamed on others, as long as we handled it by ourselves.
I endure and endure, finally convinced myself not to find red red theory, unexpectedly, she found me.
Because the bright light promised me to go clear with the red red, from now on no longer contact, I also wait for him to give me an account.
A week later, I suddenly received a red phone call, she said to talk to me.
I didn’t think she’d have the audacity to come here as a third party.
I asked her to come to the house, and she did, so calm and relaxed that she showed no remorse.
“I don’t think I stole your husband,” she said. “If you have a relationship, why would you let someone take advantage of it?”
What a theory!
I asked her, who did not quarrel quarrel between husband and wife, if quarreled once from once, how many marriages in this world can withstand the toss?
She didn’t care, but insisted that she and Mingguang had feelings and that I shouldn’t interfere with their relationship even if I didn’t want a divorce.
She was out of control. I threw her out of the house.
When Ming Guang came back, I asked him how he had talked to her.
He said she wouldn’t let it end, even without marriage.
My God, what a woman she is!
I really suspect she’s a little out of her mind from the shock of the divorce!
But even if it were not normal, it would be wise to think that her own marriage had been broken up by the intervention of others, and how could she replicate the same pain in another family?
!
I think Ming Guang still don’t want to divorce, since I found out, he rules a lot, go home early after work, social intercourse can push push, really can not push off, with me in detail the time and place of people, trying to let me rest assured.
And I want to forgive it, as if it never happened.
But Honghong is like a nightmare, holding on to refuse to wake up.
She calls Ming Guang, sends text messages, on her way home…
She had thought of everything she could think of.
Even when the light clearly refused, she did not give up.
Later, he began to call home, can not find the light to look for me, the family stirred up.
During that time my temper is also particularly bad, although always pressure but still can’t help but blunt bright light angry, after all, these are he provoked, now also be pestered, how can I not hold a breath!
I wanted to give way, more want to say to her: do not love him, let him go.
Bright light is very let me, probably he also knows his wrong, so just so concede it.
Later I know, originally there is another reason, he unexpectedly quietly with red red and contact!
This time they did it very secretly, Mingguang basically used work time to date Honghong, he used this way, to calm Honghong’s anger and my dissatisfaction, but what a stupid way!
Their thing was found by me again, I was desperate, to the light of divorce.
He refused, saying that he did not want to continue with Hong Hong at all, but was forced by her entanglement, and did not want to anger me, just came up with this next strategy.
He regretted it, but he couldn’t get rid of her.
Red with his single, can be unscrupulous, but he can not, especially red once threatened to his unit to make time, he really worried.
I believe Honghong doesn’t really love him, and a woman shouldn’t use threats to get the affection she wants.
I also regret my previous attitude toward the light. If we had been united in our initial discovery, we might not have had the subsequent relapse.
It’s too late to say anything now, our marriage has been disrupted, even if we have the heart to mend, afraid is also powerless to return to heaven.
After thinking about it, I feel cold. If the second half of my long life is always shrouded in this shadow, what is the meaning of such a day?
To this day, I still don’t understand, why did this happen to me?
What’s more, why is this person not a stranger, but my best friend?
I also want to say to her: even if I give up, you in this family can really live with peace of mind?
Postscript: OFTEN see children envy other people’s toys in the hand, safe children just look at it, bold, directly began to rob.
As a result, the child who is robbed cries, and the child who is robbed of the toy is not necessarily proud, because it is usually ordered by the adult to return it to the family.
Children will grow up slowly, the object of envy may also turn from someone else’s toys to someone else’s love.
However, others are others, you no matter how like, hard to rob the effect will not be good.
Maybe grab to grab to grab, or grab also rob bad.
Let others bear the pain of fragmentation, their rob is only a fragmented love.
