The husband’s elder brother also just married a year, although the sister-in-law is just an ordinary worker, it is the city dweller, and the mouth is also very sweet, deep mother-in-law’s love.
Predestined to get together under the same roof, we say love the motherland, love the people, how not to do a good job of loving each other’s family!
The world is not full of good people.
When my husband took me to step on the door of my mother-in-law’s house, she was very cold to me.
The reason for the apathy is not because I am not good, but because I was born in the countryside, my family is very poor.
I am the youngest daughter of my parents. I went through primary school, middle school and high school almost unimpeded, and I was the first one in my township to be admitted to college.
Others jokingly called the valley flying out of the golden phoenix.
And my parents, while proud of me, almost shed their last drop of blood and sweat.
Therefore, when I went back to teach in a small town after graduation, when talking about marriage, I first declared that I had no dowry, not only that, I also had to pay back some debts at home, also had to support my parents.
For this reason, I had some difficulties in marriage until I met my husband.
My husband said that I was the one he was waiting for in his life. He did not care about my poor family at all. He was also deeply proud of my open-minded and hardworking parents and deeply grateful to my parents who had given birth to me.
That I myself was the best dowry, that we had a pair of hands, that we could start with nothing and build a future.
So, we hand in hand, on the red carpet of marriage.
My mother, on the other hand, just looked at me with strange eyes, a girl from the countryside.
The husband’s elder brother also just married a year, although the sister-in-law is just an ordinary worker, it is the city dweller, and the mouth is also very sweet, deep mother-in-law’s love.
On weekends we went to my mother-in-law’s place, she was lukewarm support.
Sister-in-law went, she a long way out of the door, catcall, hospitality.
My new house is very humble; my sister-in-law’s is very luxurious.
Many of these are in sharp contrast.
I thought I was dumb and poor and not good at ingratiating myself.
Don’t go if I’m not welcome.
Fortunately, her husband always politely consoling me, words, also always attunements mother-in-law, besides, I think, is because of my poor, and let the husband hold a lot more heart, every time always caring about family more than me, looked at her husband that loving expression on his face to me, let me feel a lot of comfort, I forgot her mother-in-law is bad.
She gets along with her mother-in-law lukewarm.
I went head-to-head with her after I had a baby.
The child is just half a year old, the husband catches up to study.
I had to go to work, and my mother-in-law was fine, and she offered to take care of my daughter.
I’ll let her do it. She’s my daughter’s grandmother, after all.
But when she came to live with me, she kept on complaining about me.
For example, how the poverty of my family affected his son’s ability to buy a refrigerator. When a guest came, he told him behind my back how I had developed a stingy character because of poverty and stinginess, and how I didn’t like guests telling others not to come, etc.
Guests and neighbors repeated these words to me, which made me very angry.
So I spent the night thinking about what I could say to change my mother-in-law’s snobbery.
The next day, just to rest, I calmly find my mother-in-law, asked her why she said those words in the neighbors and relatives?
What’s the evidence that I’m stingy, mean, and don’t welcome guests?
My family was poor and had no dowry, but I did not ask for a penny from you. Parents only want their children to be good. What good do you do by provoking your son against me?
Don’t you know the rules of family and all things?
My mother-in-law has never seen me contradict her.
When I cut to the chase instead of beating around the door, she felt a wave of shame on her face, then denied that she had said nothing about me, and then said that if I didn’t like her, she would go back…
After this change, my mother-in-law knew that although I came from the countryside, I was not the kind of person who was always weak and could not be deceived. She also knew the kindness and trust of my husband in me.
And I, think of father-in-law died early, mother-in-law put up with all kinds of hardships to bring up the two sons, declined a lot of people’s marriage, are for the son to have a good future, it is not easy.
Looking forward to a happy ending for my children is every parent’s hope, let her know that I do not understand, just did not want to explain.
But she’s my husband’s mother, and I should love her.
I tried to understand her from her point of view.
Especially after my mother died, I tried to think of her as my mother.
I have been careless, determined to use their own sincerity and love affect mother-in-law.
Some unimportant festivals such as Mid-Autumn Festival or Double Ninth festival, her birthday, originally I always can’t remember, I wrote in the memo, remember in the mobile phone.
Give her a decent present as much as I can.
Daughter grew up, more and more lovely, she looked happy, Saturday and Sunday I also sent my daughter to play with her for a day or two.
It is common for old people in the city to wear bright red and green, I saw her sometimes want to wear but afraid of people laughing, I took time to accompany her on the street, while walking while chatting with her, especially the dress of middle-aged and elderly women, and always took the opportunity to buy her some fashionable clothes.
She was happier and happier.
All said human indifference, and we are a family, the husband loves me, I also love the husband, how can not love the husband’s mother?
Predestined to get together under the same roof, we say love the motherland, love the people, how not to do a good job of loving each other’s family!
