A poet said it best: “A man who does not love, a girl who does not love.”
In the youth of young boys and girls, hazy and shy will produce a desire to be together with the opposite sex of the subtle emotion.
It’s the perfect time for love to start.
When the angel of love crept down beside me.
Some girls (or boys) will suddenly receive a passionate, unexpected letter of love.
The suitor may be a stranger you have never met…
What will you think and do when you first receive this heavy, passionate letter of love?
A mixture of confusion, uneasiness, excitement, excitement, hope and fear may come to your mind.
Dear young friends, what are you to do at this time of confusion and excitement?
The great French writer Moliere said: “Love is a great teacher, teach us to be a new man.”
Dealing with the first letter of love is a serious and unusual thing for young people who are just beginning to get involved in love and are looking forward to a wonderful love life.
In young people’s love life, it is a decent and effective way to express their love to the opposite sex in the form of letters, which is often used by young men and women.
A girl in the prime of her youth should suddenly receive a letter of love from a young stranger.
Most of the psychological characteristics of Chinese youth are saving and deep. Although many young men and women have understood each other well in contact with each other, but because of the traditional habits, they often find it difficult to speak to each other face to face, so they turn to Hongyan letters for help.
So when you first receive a love letter like this, don’t take it lightly.
It is the link between two hearts of mutual love, is to complete the marriage of two lovers of the emissary ah!
Many young men and women are exactly through this way of courtship, to establish a love relationship, eventually become married.
In addition, we should see that the initiative of others to make love to you is a sign of trust and love, we should give full respect, and according to the specific circumstances to give a clear answer.
If the lover is the classmate, colleague and friend that you have been familiar with and understand, and the “right one” that you have been waiting for, then you should be happy for this brave lover’s initiative, and actively give a positive answer, do not hesitate and miss the opportunity.
If the other party is a stranger you do not know, might as well from the side of the first to participate in its to make some understanding, after understanding, if found that the other party is a style of decency, good conduct of the youth, you feel more satisfied with his basic situation, you can make appropriate contact and contact;
If the other party is just a whim, thoughtless and reckless lover, then you should persuade its correct love attitude, so that he knows how to win the true love;
If the other party is a bad character, to play other people’s feelings for fun of the “disorderly love”, then you should not be polite stern words, and try to inform the other party’s unit and organization, to educate it.
If you are already in love and in love when you receive the first letter, then you should be clear and friendly to decline, do not be in the same boat, so as not to mistake the other person.
In short, in one’s life, receiving a love letter from a lover for the first time is a very serious and prudent thing, which should be treated seriously and responsibly.
