Men are often seen by women as needy and in need of guidance, but that doesn’t mean they’re not good at relationships.
In fact, men are giving women a love lesson with their practical actions.
Lesson 1 Love is not all of life for women, love is life, oxygen, life, therefore, a woman’s love is always with vigour and vitality, make the world is known;
Most women also pour all their feelings into it.
But men can be different, even in love, they will have the ability to ruthless heart to six friends, intently committed to the things in front of.
Men can be heartless, you might think, and sometimes you get angry at him for postponing your date again because of other things.
In fact, they are just practical and know that there are many things more important than love in real life, such as work, such as money, such as his friends…
Remember: He doesn’t mean to despise your existence at all.
There is a tendency for many women to ramble on for hours on and on about the big and small things in their lives, regardless of their friendship, whether or not they are interested in them.
Yes, women love and are good at sharing secrets with other people, but telling them everything, big or small, right or wrong, in the middle of the day will only make you look boring, trivial and unmysterious to a man, and that’s the end of the relationship.
In fact, more men love to show off their benefits to women, just listen.
Because he just wants you to “admire” him, and remember to give him a positive look every now and then…
In addition to the fact that women sometimes willingly share their thoughts with men they’ve just met, there are a number of fatal problems. Women are too open with their sisters about almost everything, from childhood nicknames to kissing techniques and even…
“Is the topic of small talk.
But have women ever thought that sharing these intimate things with your friends could cast a shadow over your relationship with them?
On the one hand, it makes him feel that his privacy is known and he has nothing to hide, which makes him uncomfortable. It is a kind of betrayal and betrayal.
In addition, you may feel worse when you hear your friend add, “Yeah, he’s hard to please,” to something you don’t really care about.
And the original should not tolerate things, but because of friends comfort, but make you more not determined to solve the problem.
When men and women interact with each other, understanding each other is absolutely what both sexes strive to pursue, but men and women understand the key points are different.
The woman wanted to know, why did he call at night and not at noon?
Why did he invite me to the movies?
Is there a special reason for that?
A man wants to know the truth, as opposed to a woman’s wild conjecture;
How old are you? Are you single?
Are you free on Saturday evening?
Did you want to see me?
Do you love me?
Many women unfairly call a man’s forthrightly determination, forthrightly statements of what he has seen, etc., callous.
In fact, men see things more like cars on the road. They tend to go from point A to point B in a straight line and rarely deviate from the track.
If a man asks you to see a movie, don’t try to figure out any of the symbolism in the first place, just think about why he asked you to see it and not someone else.
Nine times out of ten it’s because he loves you, likes you, that’s all.
This phrase doesn’t mean “Men are afraid of commitment.” It means “Men are afraid of making a commitment to a conversation that isn’t the one they were meant to have.” Before entering a committed relationship, men always ask themselves: Does she meet my needs?
How well do they fit together sexually?
Is she financially self-sufficient?
If the answer to all of these questions is no, he won’t waste his time trying to flirt with you. Nine times out of ten, he’ll back off and move on to find someone in love.
Will not be like a woman, clearly see each other is not suitable, or drill into a corner, blindly want to transform each other.
Finally, it is difficult to circle, or “long pain is better than short pain”!
This is not to say that people are cold-blooded and heartless, can not feel the seven feelings and six desires.
Women love will be sad to death, will cry in the dark;
The more advanced women would go for days without touching anything.
And in men less because of lovelorn do not eat do not drink blindly indulging in sentimental things.
Part of the reason men are so open-minded is due to a general biological behavioral response.
“Psychologically, men are more likely than women to have a psychochemical reaction to overcome pain,” experts say.
In addition to psychological differences, of course, men on the road to recover faster.
They know that eventually they will fall in love again, that there are plenty of other fish in the sea, and that the most practical remedy is to fall in love with someone else as soon as possible.
