I Fell into the Trap of Love In 1989, I was working in a food factory in Hebei province. Zhang Jian, the workshop director, was very kind to me and often took care of me in life.
Once our company sent us to study in Beijing together. We lived in the same hotel, and he lived next door to me.
One night, I went to take a shower and forgot to close the door. I don’t know when he came in.
When I came out of the bathroom, he hugged me from behind all of a sudden, I immediately cried out, he suddenly put me to bed, with his hand over my mouth, forced sex with me, and then married me.
It was windy and raining heavily outside, and I cried all night.
Back at the factory, he kept pressing me to marry him, or else he would tell the world about us.
A month later, something even worse happened when I found out that I was accidentally pregnant.
It seemed to me a very shameful thing, and I did not want to make it public, so I chose to marry him.
After I got married, I found that he was very good at gambling. He often took family money to gamble, and when he lost, he often beat me at home.
Soon after the baby came into the world, I could no longer go to work, and life at home was sometimes a problem.
I couldn’t stand it any more. On a snowy day, I divorced him and went home with the children.
I didn’t want to live on my parents like this. When my child was 2 years old, I went south to Guangzhou to work.
It was raining heavily on the day I left. I came to Guangzhou with four or five sisters from the same village and started to work in a garment factory.
One year later, I began to have a little savings, then quit to open a fast food restaurant in Shenzhen Special Zone, is caught up with the reform and opening up of the good time, business is booming, a year down I earned more than one hundred thousand yuan.
Then my business got bigger and bigger. After I had the capital, besides the fast food restaurant, I opened a hotel, which was doing quite well.
When the business became big, I was too busy to do it alone and needed someone to help me. At this time, a young man came into my life. His name was Yang He, from Shantou.
People say Shantou people are “human essence”, do business very set, people are very easy-going, also very smart and capable, to manage very in line.
With his help, my hotel earned 400,000 yuan in six months.
Then he said to me: “Hainan is doing real estate development, has great potential, we can also invest.”
At that time the bank loan is good to borrow, I think is also, then trust a relationship to borrow 1 million to engage in real estate in Hainan.
Women are women, in business can be said to be thriving, back home is desolate.
I would often drown my sorrows and get really drunk, and Yang and I would always drive me home.
Maybe it’s love over time, maybe women are born to need help, and then we moved in together.
I need his help in my life and work, and I trust him.
After staying in Shenzhen for a long time, I seem to have feelings. I am not familiar with Hainan, and I am not used to walking around there often.
He is familiar with Hainan, so I entrusted him to manage the real estate development in Hainan.
At the beginning, he returned to Shenzhen once a month.
Then he was so busy with his work that he seldom came back.
I am very kind and easy to trust the men around me. Half a year later, Yang He transferred all my funds in Hainan real Estate Company and he disappeared.
In this way, the real estate company went bankrupt, I unknowingly lost more than one million.
I was a little confused when the man I believed in cheated me again.
${FDPageBreak} To be safe, marry a farmer I’m a woman who won’t give in.
Pick yourself up from where you fell, and you can start all over again.
I used the hotel in Shenzhen Special Zone as a mortgage, another loan of 1 million, re-opened a real estate company.
But this time it is not as lucky as last time. Hainan is saturated with properties.
With many years of business experience, I transferred out of the fast food restaurant in Shenzhen Special Zone, concentrate on the management of real estate, three years later the company began to profit.
I vowed to stay in Hainan.
After several years of struggle, I bought a few shop sublet out, but also in the international trade to buy a large house.
Business was good, and the idea of getting married and having children came to my mind again.
I couldn’t trust any men around me anymore, so I thought of online dating. Then Liu Shan, the president of a company in my hometown in Hebei province, attracted me.
In the outside so many years rarely go home, there is a special feeling for the villagers, want to go back to see.
Back home, see Liu Shan, in the process of conversation, he told me that his hometown is Shantou.
I hate Shantou people.
I said bluntly, “We are not suitable, but we can be friends.”
He was a sensible man and seemed to read my mind.
He said to help me introduce an honest and dutiful distant relatives, called Zhang Qiang.
Zhang Qiang and I are the same city, there is a special close to the hometown, plus I want to find an honest person.
Liu Shan took me to Zhang Qiang’s home, one of the poorest villages in our city.
Zhang Qiang looks ordinary, very honest and honest, also very hospitable.
I feel that this kind of man is exactly what I am looking for, he will not betray me, with him there is a special security.
His parents were like daughters to me.
My parents were satisfied with the marriage.
In this way, we quickly got a marriage license.
After the Spring Festival, we came to Hainan together.
I went back to work on my business.
In order to adapt Zhang Qiang to the environment in Hainan, I bought him new clothes and often took him out shopping.
After two months, I was pregnant and Zhang Qiang asked me to have the baby.
When he’s free, he helps me cook at home.
It’s fair to say newlywed life is pretty happy.
Sometimes I took him out to meet some of my business friends, but he didn’t know what to say and said very little.
A friend whispered to me: “This kind of man is too soil, it is soil to drop slag.”
I don’t care what they say.
But for a long time, I feel that our words are less and less, there is no common language.
He is not used to this kind of urban life, more importantly, the two sides can not communicate.
He didn’t have any friends here, and I was busy all day, and I was pregnant. It wasn’t easy.
And he was bored and wanted to go home.
I wanted to wait until the baby was born, but he insisted on coming home right away.
I tried to persuade him again and again, but nothing worked.
He went ahead anyway.
I had to take care of myself.
Now the child is about to be born, but he called two days ago to say: “I will not come, in the countryside is very good, I hope you take care……”
Before the baby was born, my marriage was circled again.
I don’t know why fate is always playing tricks on me.
Why is it so hard to find a husband?
