At the scene of a large-scale psychological counseling event for minors, children’s weariness and declining grades have become the most common problems that parents report to psychological counseling experts. Psychological counselors remind parents not to forget to provide psychological guidance to children who are tired of learning to help children get out of the troubles of learning-weary. Lack of motivation to study partial subjects. Children are partial to subjects because they are not interested in a certain subject. First of all, parents should not put pressure on children, use positive language to suggest children, and help children form a positive psychology, so as to cultivate children’s interest and improve children’s learning. efficiency. When children make small progress in subjects they are not interested in, parents should encourage their children and let them experience a sense of accomplishment. Many children are afraid of learning a certain subject, and they are tired of learning, which may be due to the failure of learning. Youth is rebellious, deliberately opposes the teacher. Children are in the rebellious period of youth, and people are easily irritable. He is reluctant to do homework and has a mentality of “I can do it, but I just don’t do it”. Schools and parents should pay attention to the education of children’s adolescence, don’t feel surprised when they see the changes in children’s adolescence, and don’t beat or scold children, otherwise it will only increase the children’s rebellious psychology and increase the difficulty of communication with children. Children in adolescence have a strong sense of independence. At this time, parents should change their roles and concepts and be their children’s friends. At the same time, parents should listen carefully to their children’s problems and understand them from their children’s standpoint.
Not adapting to the new teacher, affecting the enthusiasm of learning, the psychologist said that parents usually feel at a loss when they find out that their children have such a situation. Some parents, after listening to their children’s evaluation of the teacher, often think impulsively that the teacher is doing something wrong, and criticize the teacher in front of their children. Doing so will not only fail to help children get out of confusion, but on the contrary will easily deepen children’s dislike of teachers. Therefore, after listening to the child venting their dissatisfaction with the teacher, parents should analyze the problem with the child from an objective point of view, and should guide the child to find the reason from themselves first. If it is true that the teacher has a problem, the parent should communicate with the teacher in person, and work with the teacher to find a solution.
