I am the only one Some of these students do not accept the discipline of their step-parents due to lack of discipline, some do not accept the discipline of their step-parents due to the estrangement of their family, or the step-parents are not convenient to control them too strictly. Everything is self-centered, with no parents, no classmates, no teachers, and no other people in mind. Some students not only do not call their stepparents, but even their own parents. Such students behave selfishly, do not care about the collective, do not participate in public welfare activities, and do not abide by school rules and class discipline, which is the top priority of ideological education.
slim Everyone has their own self-esteem and self-confidence. Under the correct guidance, they can build up their confidence and establish their goals in life. However, due to the lack of sufficient family guidance, some single-parent students cannot establish a correct outlook on life, cannot design a beautiful life blueprint, and some even have a beautiful ideal flower, but they did not cultivate this flower in time due to the breakdown of the family. resulting in no sweet fruit. Life is rich and colorful, but it is also varied and varied. Children without a good family will feel at a loss as to what they should pursue and choose, or some have never thought about these issues at all, and have no clear direction in life. .
Anxiety Anxiety about people is an indicator of the degree of premonition of difficulty and failure when interacting with others. Children of single parent family see people attack each other in the process of their parents’ divorce, and learn to bargain and hostile to each other. Therefore, they lack confidence in interpersonal interactions, and their guardians Emotional disorders caused by lack of family can easily bring this emotion into the interaction with children. Children live in fear and spend a lot of time dealing with the family relationship after the family is broken, and the interaction between people. Feeling anxious and insecure. Therefore, they feel uneasy and sensitive in front of everyone, and they are always afraid that others will say bad things about them when making friends, and they are always unhappy when they are told, and they have the characteristics of withdrawal and anxiety in their relationships with others.
Reverse Because children in single-parent families do not have a high status in the “children’s circle”, they are easy to be ridiculed and bullied by other children. However, they also long for Che Yan and to be appreciated by others, so they deliberately show their difference in words and deeds, and sometimes even like to “top the bull’s horns and fight against each other” to show their own existence value.
No clear concept of marriage Generally, children of single parents have difficulty adjusting to family life after marriage. This is the biggest distress when children grow up from divorced families. Because they lack a clear concept of marriage and are not good at accommodating others, they have too perfect requirements for the other half, which often makes them indecisive, and it is difficult to find the marriage partner in their minds, even if they find a marriage partner, they enter the marriage. , it will also cause all kinds of discomfort, because once you enter the marriage, you need to maintain the relationship between two people, but also need to maintain the relationship between the two big families. Faced with the complicated family relationship after marriage, children of divorced families are often at a loss, and even use counterproductive methods to make the family relationship worse and worse, putting their marriage into crisis. Conclusion: The growth of a child is inseparable from a family, and an unsound family can cause great harm to a child. If two people really reach the point where they have to be separated, then the most important thing at that time is the child. As a parent, at that time, you must care more about the child, so that the child feels that the love he gets when the parents are separated is the same. Only then can we make up for the trauma of the child’s soul. At that time, I still hope that every child can grow up healthy in a healthy family.
