As the saying goes, “Fu sing Fu follow”, and the wife was pregnant, but her husband came to a “Fu sing Fu follow”, empathy – the wife was pregnant, think of home will soon usher in new life, inject new vitality, I excited, not to sigh: if the mother is alive.
So a thought, in the heart and over a inexplicable worry: when my mother gave birth to a hemorrhage died, father hate me, stepmother also don’t like me, only grandma love me this life was born without a mother’s child.
For mother’s death, my heart always faint with a trace of remorse.
Grandma said mom left early, it was her life, but I think, without me, mom will not die so early.
After my wife became pregnant, the idea flashed in my mind like a flickering flame.
Would the wife also…
During my wife’s pregnancy, I took care of her and wanted her and the baby to be safe.
That noon we were in the kitchen cleaning and cooking, my wife suddenly dropped what she was doing and ran into the bathroom. I didn’t know what happened, I quickly followed her.
It turned out that the wife was struggling to vomit, frowning, holding her stomach, looking very uncomfortable.
Startled, I asked her if she wanted to go to the hospital.
The wife shakes her head to say not to need, be pregnancy reaction, very NORMAL.
I breathed a sigh of relief, but no sooner had I relaxed than I felt my stomach churning and, like my wife, I began to retch.
I this TOSS, the wife instead stopped, she strangely looked at me and said: “You this is how, think I dirty?”
I quickly waved my hand: “Absolutely not that meaning, I was eager to replace you to suffer.”
It’s weird. Since then, I’ve had a chain reaction with my wife.
If she doesn’t, I’ll be fine. When she does, I’ll follow.
She was dizzy and weak, I was weak, she could not eat, and I had no appetite.
At first, I suspected that I had something wrong with me, so I went to the hospital for a check, and the result was very healthy.
The WIFE WAS MADE TO CRY AND LAUGH: “I THIS IS pregnant after the pregnancy reaction, YOU a big man follow GATHER together what LIVELY?”
I had no choice but to laugh at myself: “Fu Cheifu, empathy, so just show our feelings to the deep.”
One DAY, AFTER WORK, SISTER WU ACCIDENTALLY MENTIONED MY WIFE, in fact, she was just concerned to greet, who knows, THIS MENTION, I immediately think of the wife uncomfortable appearance, immediately feel unbearable, ABDOMEN suddenly a BILlow.
The WU ELDER SISTER OF UNKNOWN INSIDE SITUATION SEE ME SUDDENLY FACE SUDDENLY CHANGE, CONCERN GROUND SAY: “YOU HOW, WANT NOT TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL?”
“Nothing, VERY NORMAL, I THIS IS PREGNANCY REACTION.”
It doesn’t matter. Not only Sister Wu, but also all the colleagues in the office were amused by me.
As my wife’s early pregnancy reaction passed, my “pregnancy reaction” disappeared imperceptibly.
Because of that gaffe, “pregnancy sickness” became the butt of jokes at work, but I didn’t care because it was rare for me and my wife to be as connected as we are.
On the due date, the wife was admitted to the ward.
The next day, the wife’s labor pains had become continuous, and the doctor said she could go to the waiting room.
My wife wanted me to be by her side during the birth, and I said yes.
My wife was lying on the cot in the delivery room, groaning in pain. I was pained and tried to comfort her, but I felt tight and top-heavy and weak as if I had a serious illness.
I didn’t know what was wrong with me, so I tried to pretend nothing was wrong for fear of worrying my wife.
The wife kept groaning and screaming, then said “pee”, then said “the child turned over”.
I kept reminding myself that I must hold on and not fall down. My wife needs me, and as long as there are no accidents between the adults and the children, I am willing to undertake whatever it takes.
Fortunately, my wife was accompanied by her mother-in-law and watched by doctors and nurses. No one noticed my expression.
My wife finally went into labor, and since there were no other women, I could be there with her.
The doctor told his wife to lift her leg, open it, and push it down with the pain.
However, the baby seems to be very attached to the mother, the wife every time, the baby only a little out.
After several rounds, the wife’s forehead was covered with beads of sweat and she moaned that she had no strength and could not move.
I grabbed my wife’s hand, worried but unable to help, had to repeat in her ear: “It’s okay, I have.”
The mouth said so, but the heart was never panicked, so when will the labor end?
Where would she end up?
Will there be any accidents?
Thinking like this, I suddenly felt a convulsion, throbbing, and heard my wife’s cry of pain in my ear. I felt dark in front of me and couldn’t support it anymore.
When I woke up, I was lying in a hospital bed. The doctor said that I was overscared and that I would get over it after a rest.
At THIS TIME THE MOTHER-IN-LAW COME OVER, SEE ME NOTHING, THIS JUST GRUMBLE TO BLAME ME: “YOU SEE YOU, A BIG MAN, HOW EVEN THIS MATTER ALL CAN’T BEAR?”
I was very ashamed, but I was relieved to hear that my wife was safe and had a healthy baby girl.
Excited, I pulled back the covers, stood up and ran out of the ward.
Later, when I mentioned this experience again, a doctor said that this phenomenon is medically called “pregnancy syndrome”, which is mainly caused by psychological factors.
At this point, the mystery in our minds was completely solved.
The DOCTOR COMMENTS ON: MEDICAL SCIENTIST AND PSYCHOLOGIST THINK, PREGNANCY ACCOMPANIES THE NEUROSIS THAT SYNDROME IS A KIND OF PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTOR TO BRING ABOUT OR SUFFER FROM DISEASE OF BODY AND MIND.
Its etiology, mainly is her husband in the joy of the soon to be father, psychological long waited for the baby is born, the anxiety, uncertainty about future roles and responsibilities of life change, for the future children health concern and worry, and other strong emotions intertwined, leads to mental tension and disorder,
And because of this psychological change, there are corresponding physical changes.
The “me” in the article is just like this. In addition to anxiety about the future, there is also the memory of his mother died of hemorrhage due to childbirth, which makes him even more afraid and anxious.
In addition, there are also relevant experimental studies that show that patients with pregnancy concomitant syndrome not only have psychological factors, but also the husbands who have symptoms of pregnancy reaction do appear physiological changes.
For example, blood samples from expectant fathers showed higher levels of corticosteroids, prolactin and androgens during their wives’ pregnancies.
When a child is born, fathers’ blood levels of these hormones decrease as much as mothers’.
Further research found this was the result of knee-jerk hormonal changes in expectant fathers caused by a woman’s behaviour and smell during pregnancy.
Whatever the reason, it has been shown that men also experience “pregnancy reactions”.
So, how to prevent and treat pregnancy syndrome?
First of all, to treat pregnancy and childbirth correctly, we can browse and learn some medical science knowledge about pregnancy and childbirth in a targeted way, so as to alleviate and eliminate ideological doubts.
Secondly, the human body is an organic whole, and the influence of psychological changes on physiology is objective. A good and healthy psychological state is crucial for the treatment of her husband’s pregnancy syndrome.
Psychological adjustment is difficult for patients to consider the use of some drugs, such as vitamin B6, valium, etc., if still unable to relieve symptoms, should consult a doctor about treatment options.
Finally, attention should be paid to the treatment of pregnant women’s pregnancy reaction. If the pregnancy reaction of pregnant women can be effectively alleviated, the psychological and physical pressure of pregnant women can be reduced, which is not only beneficial to the health of pregnant women and the fetus, but also the psychological anxiety of her husband can be alleviated.
Therapy also helps couples connect emotionally.
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