In today’s society, it is common for women to have higher education and higher salary than men.
Therefore, it is not incomprehensible that the “strong” princess and the “weak” frog will marry.
However, influenced by traditional ideas, this kind of marriage which challenges the traditional mode will inevitably face various troubles.
These problems are mainly caused by two main reasons — overvaluing the opinions of those around us. Once we have formed a fixed impression of something or someone, it is very difficult to change it.
This impression may not be reasonable, but it affects our judgment and attitude towards things and other people.
Traditionally, when it comes to men and women, we immediately think that men should stand tall and women should be virtuous and family-oriented.
Therefore, the marriage of the “strong” princess and the “weak” frog is bound to arouse a lot of people’s doubts and comments.
On the other hand, traditional education lacks self-education, which leads many people to attach too much importance to external evaluation.
Once their marriage by people around the controversy and doubt, they will have doubts about their love, marriage.
Single value evaluation criteria: we usually think that a good man must have a successful career;
A man’s dignity in front of his wife must come from his material contribution to the family;
A man who can hold up a day for women must be very rich…
These stereotypes are still ingrained in us today, leading most men to base their values firmly on career success and wealth.
Therefore, when the man’s goal is not achieved, or his wife exceeds him, their first reaction is that the man’s dignity is threatened.
In order to defend the so-called dignity of macho men, they often act in extreme or wrong ways, intending to reproduce manly majesty.
Influenced by traditional ideas, many women will fall into misunderstanding, easy to measure a man’s value from the external or single Angle.
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