In business communication, the eloquence of business personnel has high requirements.
Business people do not have to be articulate, but must have good logical thinking ability, clear language expression ability.
It is said that politeness travels everywhere, even in conversation.
For example, nowadays actors are young and beautiful, intelligent, good at singing, and vivid in acting, in an attempt to create an image among the audience and enhance their sense of superiority;
As everyone knows, a person compared to their own excellent person, will only increase the frustration in the heart, it is natural to produce antipathy.
According to this principle, some people deliberately show their clumsiness in order to gain popularity.
In FRONT OF THE COLLEAGUE OF THE COMPANY, SUPERIOR, SHOW PURE ONE SIDE DELIBERATELY, WITH ITS HONEST AND SIMPLE IMAGE, STIMULATE THE sense OF SUPERIORITY OF others, EAT SMALL DEFICIT AND TAKE BIG ADVANTAGE.
And some subordinates will not hide their own edge, work everywhere performance energetic, strong ability, but do not know their own in the invisible has provoked jealousy and suspicion: “you, you one person can do well, that also what we do?
Two, say some of their own personal affairs, so as to close the distance between each other do not necessarily open the door to see the mountain, a meeting to talk about work, will definitely make people disgusted.
Why not put aside the subject for a moment, and talk about the common topic, or your own trifles, in order to achieve the resonance of the soul.
For example, in his campaign speech for the presidential seat, Kennedy once said lightly, “Next, I would like to tell you that although my wife and I won the election, we hope to have another child.”
Talking about personal matters with colleagues in the company can enhance the sense of intimacy between each other.
However, private matters do not include privacy.
If you reveal your private information to others, they may attack you as a laughing stock.
If you talk about other people’s privacy, they will also express dissatisfaction with you, and take the opportunity to retaliate.
Listening is the key to your victory. A man with ears is far more likable than a man with only a mouth.
When communicating with others, if you talk too much about yourself, you don’t care if the other person is interested in listening.
This is not polite, and it is very easy to get people upset.
To be a good listener, not only to speak yourself, but also to respect others to say, the effect is much better than your hype.
Listening is not just listening, but listening sincerely and occasionally expressing approval or praise.
When listening, to smile, do not do other things, should be timely expression, gesture such as nod to express approval, so as not to give a perfunctory impression.
Especially when the other person has anger and dissatisfaction to vent, listening can relieve the hostile feelings of others.
Many people complain angrily, not necessarily need to get any reasonable explanation or compensation, but need to vent their dissatisfaction.
Listening is far more useful than giving advice.
If an explanation is necessary, avoid confrontation and wait until the other person’s anger has subsided.
Master a certain way to deal with interpersonal relations in the office, in a smooth interpersonal relationship at the same time their mood can also be better, and a good relationship with colleagues can not only be more harmonious, but also let themselves suffer from some unnecessary trouble, for everyone’s work is also helpful.
It is the so-called harmony to generate money to do great business.
