A shy little girl falls in love with a handsome and handsome male teacher, a sunny and affectionate little boy falls in love with a beautiful and gentle female teacher… This is not a plot in the novel, but many people have experienced it when they went to school. As a topic that everyone cares about, the love of teachers and students often stirs up ripples in the peaceful campus. While it is not uncommon for teacher-student romances to end up with positive results, more teacher-student romances have gone through ups and downs and eventually died. Psychology experts believe that, in a sense, “love teacher complex” is also a psychological disorder. For some teenagers who are not yet fully mature, they need professional guidance. Students can easily sympathize with teachers. Emma, a girl known as the “School Beauty”, is surrounded by many boys who secretly send good news, but she likes her Chinese teacher so much that every time she takes Chinese class, she often loses her soul. The teacher is a genius who graduated from the Chinese Department. He was emaciated, with a melancholy expression, and his stomach was filled with works and stories by famous artists such as Hugo, Stendhal, Balzac, Flaubert, Kawabata Yasunari, and Hemingway. I wrote a good poem and recited it with emotion. Gwen, who likes literature, and several other girls in the class are attracted to him. The girls even like to consult him alone, even jealous of him. So much so that she often loses her mind in every Chinese class. The teacher is a genius who graduated from the Chinese Department. He was emaciated, with a melancholy expression, and his stomach was filled with works and stories by famous artists such as Hugo, Stendhal, Balzac, Flaubert, Kawabata Yasunari, and Hemingway. , wrote a good poem, recited with emotion. Feifei, who likes literature, and several other girls in the class were attracted by him. The girls even like to consult him alone, even jealous of him. So much so that she often loses her mind in every Chinese class. The teacher is a genius who graduated from the Chinese Department. He was emaciated, with a melancholy expression, and his stomach was filled with works and stories by famous artists such as Hugo, Stendhal, Balzac, Flaubert, Kawabata Yasunari, and Hemingway. , wrote a good poem, recited with emotion. Gwen, who likes literature, and several other girls in the class are attracted to him. The girls even like to consult him alone, even jealous of him. People who like literature, several girls in the class were attracted by him. The girls even like to consult him alone, even jealous of him. People who like literature, several girls in the class were attracted by him. The girls even like to consult him alone, even jealous of him.
Psychologists believe that a prominent feature of the psychological transformation of contemporary adolescents is that it is easy to transfer love to young teachers of the opposite sex. Because teachers are the role models that young people are most familiar with and follow first, students’ feelings for teachers often change from respect and love to love. However, students who fall in love with their teachers tend to worry. Without proper treatment, they can go to extremes and lead to mental disorders or illnesses. An obsession with teachers has led to depression and confusion, and a high school boy, Jack, has been in the lower reaches of his class with his English (forum) grades. The gentle and beautiful English teacher makes up lessons alone every day, which makes Jack’s grades improve by leaps and bounds. After being in contact with the teacher alone for a long time, Xiao Ke unknowingly fell in love with his English teacher. He liked the raised mouth of the teacher when he smiled, and the fragrance of her long loose hair. Then one day, suddenly hearing the news that the teacher was going to marry his fiancé, Jack’s heart was like thunder, and his inner world became more and more confused and depressed.
Undoubtedly, teenagers who are confused in “teacher lover complex” need to give guidance, and teachers’ role model, educational methods and psychological understanding of teenagers are important factors to prevent and solve their psychological obstacles. The confusions of adolescence are far more than these , but these are arguably the important, more frequent ones. If parents, teachers and adolescents all pay attention to learning basic psychological knowledge and carry out correct youth education, including accepting sexual psychology and sexual morality education, it will be possible to greatly reduce the confusion of adolescents. The reason for falling in love with a teacher stems from the narrow contact surface on campus. The reason why young students easily “love a teacher” is not only because they are in a period of extraordinary physical physiology, but also has a certain relationship with the narrow contact surface on campus. For example, girls at the beginning of their relatio nship are surrounded by a group of naive boys. Influenced by romance novels and film and television dramas, they all fantasize that their Prince Charming is tall, handsome and financially based. Mature men can live on campus and have little contact with people in society, so naturally they don’t encounter them.
Therefore, the single male teacher in the school has become the target of many girls’ eyes. For a young male teacher, not long after graduating from college and just starting his own business, he is frequently discharged by young and beautiful female students, which is of course a matter of face. The male teacher who has no distractions will just laugh and pass, not the male teacher who is very tempted or has no girlfriend. It may be very useful. After going down again and again, they come together . It is normal for students to fall in love with their teachers when they are in the stage of adolescence, but if they are addicted to it, it will inevitably affect their normal learning and life, and may even disrupt the normal teaching order of the school. After all, most of the teachers have entered the stage of love and have their own sweethearts, and some have married and have their own spouses. Therefore, if students feel unable to extricate themselves in this regard, they should adjust their psychology as soon as possible.
