As the saying goes: open your eyes before marriage, and close your eyes after marriage. One sentence clarifies the relationship between husband and wife. Open your eyes before marriage, of course, to choose a good husband for yourself. After marriage, open your eyes and close your eyes for harmonious communication with each other. After the child was born, I found that there was a gap between my husband and me. He worked outside, and I took care of the child at home. The two people had less contact. The only common language was the child. During that period, he often worked overtime and came back from outside to sleep. The phone has also been set with a password, and my heart has also been raised. Once at 1:00 in the evening, he got up and went outside to answer the phone, and came back at almost 2:00. I have something on my mind and I can’t sleep. When he came back, he pretended to ask vaguely: Who, lover? He hugged on the bed and said to me: What nonsense are you talking about? The company lost the information a few days ago, and now it’s a bit frowning. I had stopped talking, slept on my side, and said I had no doubts about my husband, that must be false, but I chose to believe what my husband said. On the other hand, he is an honest man, good to me, good to parents, good to children, and that’s enough for me. On the other hand, I think there is a relationship between husband and wife that needs to be opened and closed.
No matter whether my husband is having an affair or not, if I catch this matter, there will definitely be a crack in the relationship between the two, catch the wind, and explain the difference. On the contrary, my euphemistic attention is no longer entangled, as long as his conscience does not disappear, reflect on himself, the prodigal son returns, and our marriage is as peaceful and happy as it is now. In today’s marriage, there are too many smart people, but they are happier than those who are dissatisfied. The seniors don’t want so much, and they spend a dull life together accidentally. Modern people are smart and refuse to suffer, and it is not surprising that the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. .
Marriage is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more it leaks. In the end, you can only grab it again and find new hope, but if you don’t change yourself, the sand will leak out, and you will fall into an unfortunate marriage that never stops. Spiritual affair, emotional betrayal, involvement of a third party, our marriage is facing all kinds of threats, and unexpectedly may appear in your married life, avoid it? Since it is unavoidable, let’s meet like this and feel at ease. Make it easy for the other person, make it easy for yourself. Tolerance and satisfaction are the greatest wealth in the relationship between husband and wife. Dissatisfied with oneself, discovering each other’s advantages, enduring each other’s shortcomings, opening and closing eyes is the correct way of communication between husband and wife. Accidentally said gentleness, great wisdom is stupid, give up small wisdom, protect great wisdom, and find that a happy life is so simple! .
