Arguments should also be based on principles, and the contradictions in marriage should not be excessive

Housework, busy farming, disciplining children, and taking care of the elderly seem to be the labels that rural women need. These troublesome affairs have gradually become the spearhead of quarrels between husband and wife. They always quarrel without saying a word, and do not sprinkle salt on each other’s wounds Women are emotional creatures, and they have feelings when they are dominated by their own feelings. It can’t hurt the opponent in a violent way. Otherwise, quarrels destroy marriages like tornadoes. Today, let’s take a look at the principles that quarrels need to grasp.

1. Pay attention to the occasion. The quarrel is not just a quarrel if you want to quarrel. The occasion is the best time to be selected. First of all, two people have to fight when they are alone. There must be no war with children, parents, friends and family. As a result, there will be no disaster for the family. If you can’t control it, quarrel in the fields of crops. The earth is the most tolerant. No matter what the quarrel is, it can be reconciled in the end. Avoiding others from participating in your quarrel is also to protect both parties.
2. Don’t hurt people too much. Do not hurt the dignity of the other party is the most basic principle. Loud voice, serious attitude, reasonable effort, garlic peel, can express everything you don’t like, the only thing you can’t do is hurt someone you love by bad words. Quarrel is to promote your love, to make the other party care more about you and love you, not to release aggression to hurt the other party’s heart, but to make the other party turn away from you.
3. Try to quarrel face-to-face With the development of science and technology, almost all communication between people is based on the telephone and the Internet. Still, remember not to quarrel over the phone and the computer. Because there are no signals and cues such as eyes, body, temperature, breath, etc., it is easy to lose information and cause more misunderstandings. In order not to upset both parties, it is necessary to remember that there is something to quarrel after meeting.
4. There are actually simple countermeasures to resolve disputes taking into account the basic needs of the other party. Leave a face to a man and a hug to a woman. No matter how fierce the quarrel is, as long as a man remembers, hugging won’t solve anything. Women should remember to leave enough face for men. If it hurts a man’s face and tempers his patience, even if he loves you again, he doesn’t want to hug an indifferent and violent woman for the time being. Husbands and wives must leave stairs for each other, accept it well, and give it to themselves and each other. I didn’t expect quarrels to be so particular, and it seems that we can’t quarrel casually in the future. Couples quarrel is the norm in marriage, but the principle is also important, don’t regret it until the fire develops rapidly.