The reason why some children do not study well, their personalities are withdrawn and strange, and even have strange behaviors, etc., these phenomena are not caused by diseases, but a large part of them are caused by inferiority complex. Therefore, children’s health should not only depend on the body, but also on the mental health. Adjustment is also very important. How to eliminate inferiority complex has become a topic of concern to many parents.
- The method of saving success
Self-confidence is the guarantee of success, and self-confidence is also based on successful experience. Scientists have shown that every time you succeed, there is a trace in the human brain – the circuit pattern of the action pattern. When people recall the past In the successful mode, you can regain the joy of success. When eliminating the child’s inferiority complex, in order to let him live in a successful experience, an effective method is to guide him to establish a successful file, and put every time even a very small one. The success and progress of the company are recorded, and the accumulation of small amounts can add up. Take it out every once in a while, and often review the mood of success, so that he can overcome difficulties with confidence.
- Scrub shadow method
The shadow of failure is a breeding ground for low self-esteem. Children with low self-esteem encounter many more setbacks and failures than ordinary children. Timely washing the shadow of failure is an important means to overcome low self-esteem and maintain self-confidence. There are many ways to wash the shadow of failure, which are more common There are two kinds: one is that parents should help their children take failure as an opportunity to learn, carefully analyze the reasons for failure, learn from failures and draw lessons from them, and sum up experience; Painful things are completely forgotten, or successful experiences are used to offset the shadow of failure.
- Reverse comparison method
There is no discrimination without comparison. To know yourself, you have to compare yourself with others. We usually do not advocate reverse comparison, that is, use your own strengths to compare others’ weaknesses, but for children who “envy others’ strengths and shame their own weaknesses” In other words, adopting the reverse direction and choosing the shortcomings of others as the object of comparison can achieve unexpected results in eliminating inferiority complex and achieving psychological balance.
- Reduce the pursuit method
A philosopher once said: “The higher the pursuit, the fuller the display of talents will be.” For backward children, it is better to let these children appropriately lower their pursuits, to break down the big goal into several small goals, instead of talking about aspirations. Goals can be found by term, month, or even week. Goals become small and specific and easy to achieve, so your child will often have a sense of success and progress faster.
