- Don’t be spoiled and spoiled, don’t leave “good”, go out without lifting, eat whatever you want, dress whatever you want, and you will develop a child’s willful character. Parents “love the child – spoil the child – mistake the child”, this is often a trilogy in real life where some teenagers go astray.
- Avoid protecting and condoning. In daily life, children do wrong things in public. Parents know that they are wrong, but they shelter and cover them up for various reasons. As a result, children cannot correctly treat shortcomings and mistakes.
- Don’t coax some parents to seek peace for a while, and do not hesitate to make up false stories to deceive their children. This way, it is easy for children to imitate their parents and develop a hypocritical and dishonest character.
- Avoid being sarcastic and sarcastic with children, thinking that they can “stimulate” progress, but the result is counterproductive.
- Don’t ask parents to “hate iron but not steel” for their children. Everything should be perfect, and if you don’t follow the way, you will be severely reprimanded, which will make the children feel at a loss, and their thoughts will feel suppressed and restrained.
- Don’t let children be without guidance and education, let them do whatever they want, and fail to fulfill their parental responsibilities, and the consequences are unpredictable.
- Avoid beating, scolding and corporal punishment In real life, some parents believe in the creed of “no beating is impossible” and cannot convince others with reason, instead beating and scolding and corporal punishment, as a result, this not only fails to achieve the purpose of education, but also damages the child’s self-esteem , often resulting in emotional antagonism.
- Avoid inattentiveness. Let children choose suitable games and sports by themselves, cultivate their ability to concentrate and concentrate on completing a task, train children to persevere and persevere, and do everything with a beginning and an end. Don’t repeatedly ask your child to change activities.
- Avoid lack of adaptability. It is very beneficial to the development of children to train children to adapt to the environment.
- Avoid being out of control It is necessary to train children to learn to control their emotions, including controlling their unreasonable demands and desires.
- Avoid being melancholy and silent, cultivate children’s optimistic and humorous character, and avoid being unhappy.
- Don’t rely on children. Let children endure certain difficulties and learn to overcome difficulties from both physical and mental (character and physique) aspects. Cultivating children’s ability to be independent from an early age is the key to children’s mental health.
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