Affirmation N people say, what you say is a case, our family is very good, the world, song and dance life.
You have not been at home as long as your wife, and your feelings cannot be equated with her feelings.
Unless you are surrounded by two women separated by a thousand miles, rarely see each other, that kiss like mother and daughter is normal.
Meet every day not to look at each other two disgust, what you want to do is to adjust in time, dissolve a problem, maintain neutral, privately cajole, do not let resentment too deep, the surface perfect consequence is often once erupt to let your jaw drop tongue, regret late.
Thank my mother-in-law for bringing me such a good husband, I want to filial piety her.
The SECOND HALF SENTENCE I agree, RAISE BOTH HANDS TO agree, THE FIRST HALF SENTENCE I SAY TOO pretentious, SHOW HYPOCRISY SHOW false, YOUR HUSBAND ALSO TO MOTHER-IN-LAW such Thanksgiving, POUR NOT NECESSARILY.
Two people together, is the fate of two people.
But, he also has his relatives, you also have a number of relatives, don’t hold a grateful heart to who good.
Except for your own parents.
To say so would certainly put you in a position to pay your debts, a debtor for life.
Take your time. No head.
I treat my mother-in-law better than my own mother.
I don’t know how your own mother would feel about that.
If you’re talking about window-dressing, I’m not talking about you.
If you’re serious, I’m gonna say “P” on behalf of your own mother.
A person who has reservations about his parents is not a filial person.
In her mother’s family as a aunt, in her husband’s family as a daughter-in-law.
Your parents love not to say, the loss of the heart hurts more.
If YOU IRON THE HEART WANTS FILIAL PIETY, FILIAL PIETY ONESELF FATHER AND MOTHER FIRST, MOTHER-IN-LAW HAS YOUR HUSBAND TAO HEART HEART GROUND FILIAL PIETY, YOU WANT TO COOPERATE MORE ONLY GOOD.
Give the wives some advice, also as a common encouragement.
In addition to being financially independent, living privately, not babysitting, and raising your own children, there is also the avoidance of confrontation.
Some people say that you have been talking nonsense for a long time, just to aggravate the contradictions among the people, why don’t you allow direct conflict?
Wrong, the key figure in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not these two women, but this middleman, who keeps the sandwich gas, and also decides the wind, which direction to blow, obviously, no where he came from the contradiction.
Not confronting a man gives him face, and he should be grateful if he knows what’s going on.
They may favor the mother in person, but they’re closer to the wife in private.
Contradicting his mother is tantamount to challenging his authority, he is not his mother a shit a urine to pull up, is his mother’s life continues, challenge his mother is to deny him, most men will think so, also can’t stand.
Rather be gentle some, don’t like the place privately with the husband to say, say clear their feelings, get the understanding and support of this side, this is your biggest victory.
And don’t say I didn’t remind you to set the rules early.
Some of the things you can’t stand are not important to the national economy or people’s livelihood, but it is these trivial things in life that will drive you crazy and leave you on pins and needles.
Like showing up unannounced, snooping around your boudoir, rummaging through your belongings, listening to phone calls.
Men may not understand why these things can drive a woman crazy, but just like some men can’t tolerate people touching their model cars or DVDS, this is a woman’s patent and the bottom line.
It is best to stop this kind of thing in time and explain your own position.
Otherwise it will be as your default, and when it is more and more natural, you will regret it.
Rules this thing, early is a rule, late stand top fart.
When it comes to privacy and human rights, we must fight it out. We must show our bottom line as soon as possible and set up rules as soon as possible.
There is also a very important point, learn to selectively deaf amnesia aphasia.
This is a person’s smooth, but also to forgive and forgive the open-minded.
Your mother-in-law may also have habits that make you laugh or cry, such as washing your dishes again, watering all your hair and silk, watering mince (not to sound alarmist, my grandma had to wash the mince my mom just cut), and so on and so forth.
This kind of thing, suggest or endure it, just as blind, learn to listen to one ear, one ear, turn a blind eye.
Just like the work of the Party, we should focus on the big and let go of the small. If you can’t stand this matter and take it seriously, we can only say that your psychological quality is too poor and the nerve endings are too fine.
That is to say, the non-principle problem had better be treated with a kind of Ah Q spirit, washed, washed well, washed clean, so think not to get.
For so many years, my mother chopped meat or bought meat from the outside to ask grandma, wash not wash ah, said wash obediently wash.
Filial piety filial piety, the shun or shun.
Last but not least, one’s husband manages himself.
The word management is two levels, one is the management of daily life.
If you can do it yourself, don’t fake it, even your mother-in-law.
It IS TIRED TO DO MORE, BUT THE CONSUMPTION IDEA THAT CONDUCE TO TRAIN HUSBAND AND ONESELF AGREE ABSOLUTELY AND AESTHETIC APPEAL.
And lest you suddenly feel a sense of loss of control, which often comes from losing control of everyday life.
And more importantly, mind management, which I didn’t ask you to do.
However, it is important to communicate with your husband to keep track of his thoughts and adjust them if necessary.
The first point to be established is that husband and wife’s income is community property, and neither party can spend it at will, while the other party has the right to know, to advise, and even to veto.
This is so important, the reason is needless to say.
You should give money, but don’t hide it from me. You should give it in moderation. You should know the exact use of the money if you can afford it.
Again, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along in the unpleasant place to say to the husband, must say, or that reason, the man careless, you do not say he when you default, everything is OK, so we continue.
You cry, say ALSO WANT TO pay attention to the way, do not move, your mother is a small citizen, your mother how so ah.
Talk to each other. Don’t get personal.
But be sure to argue your case and get to the bottom of your problems without compromising.
Let your husband know that you are angry, that you stand up for yourself and that you are not a soft touch.
Don’T GET USED TO THE MAN TO CALL YOU WITH CALL his mother like, HE CALL HIS MOTHER also SAID HE, THE life OF THE MAN TO TAKE care OF THEMSELVES AND sense OF responsibility.
When you meet big conflicts, show your bottom line, I filial piety your mother is because of you, not because of you I will not know your mother.
Do not think that I should be anything, in this world in addition to their own parents, no one is supposed to be good to who.
Filial piety to your mother that is your obligation, don’t want to let others help you when the horse.
Feelings are equivalent, do not want to pick up a filial daughter-in-law in vain and what all do not pay, with what ah?
After that raise daughter choke to death, anyway eat and drink twenty years sooner or later is someone else’s cattle.
Be good to your family by how they treat you, not just them.
Of course your mother is nice to you.
And to see even husband will not be a man.
Under THE BASIC premise OF being reasonable, IT DOESN’t hurt to be SPITeful. Don’t be so selfless and forbear. No one will give you a monument to pass down.
