Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the important ones in the “family has this difficult to read”.
How to let in-laws love, do a good daughter-in-law?
If you want to be a good daughter-in-law, a good wife, please come in and take a look!
1, don’t say filial piety is not filial, at least know how to respect.
If very filial piety, that is good.
The reality, however, is less rosy.
For many family members, filial piety is hard to find.
Okay, never mind filial piety.
At the very least, respect.
They respect their daily lives, their self-choice, their psychological space, and what should be respected.
See you respect, the family will respect you, thus dote on you.
2. Do housework, even if you rarely do it.
This year, fewer and fewer daughters-in-law do housework, but more and more do housework.
My wife became a nanny, cooking food for the whole family, washing and dressing the whole family, cleaning the whole family, watering the whole family and raising flowers, and doing this and that for the whole family.
Daughter-in-law?
Is more leisurely than the princess, and even to the father and mother bossed.
In fact, it is not a big deal for the daughter-in-law to do less housework, because the parents are willing to.
However, doing nothing or not being able to do any housework is a big problem.
Family members will surely think: one day we are all gone, such a daughter-in-law can take care of the family?
3, have their own work, do not eat the husband soft rice.
As a man should strive to take care of the home.
The same goes for being a woman.
Your husband didn’t bring you home so you wouldn’t be sick and tired.
Even if your husband agrees with you and has the power to make you do it, you’d better not.
Because they don’t like it.
The husband is their son, and it hurts them to see him struggling alone.
If you are a daughter-in-law, you should work hand in hand with your husband and at least have a job of your own, good or bad.
How can a woman always eat her husband’s bread?
4, love her husband, cherish the happiness of love, marriage and family.
Good love husband, is taken for granted.
Did you marry a wife to make her love another man?
However, the increasing divorce rate in China fully demonstrates the seriousness of the problem between wives and husbands.
The blame, of course, lies with both sides.
However, in the mind of family members, the daughter-in-law must do well first.
No philandering, no cheating, no cheating.
To treat her husband sincerely, to take care of her husband carefully, to be loyal to her husband, to cherish love, marriage and family.
5. Be a good neighbor and don’t make enemies with others.
As long as there is a family, there must be neighbors, just near and far.
Living in harmony with neighbors is a pleasant part of a family.
Daughters-in-law, who are important social hosts in the family, have to deal with their neighbors well.
If a daughter-in-law makes an enemy of a neighbor, it is not only the neighbor, not only the daughter-in-law, but also the family members who are unhappy.
In other words, the daughter-in-law is the representative of the whole family, can not be careless ah.
6, pay attention to their own behavior image, don’t lose face.
Daughter-in-law remember: in the same family, honor and share.
Therefore, in the manner of the image, must be very careful.
Can not hair disorderly clothes is too fancy, can not hands and feet rude words mean too presumptuous.
Anyway, we can’t lose face.
If you behave too much, others will certainly be chanting the name of your husband and wife, Dao, their daughter-in-law is really not a good thing.
7, Make friends with children, don’t just beat and scold.
If you don’t have children, you can ignore this.
But, you know, not many people don’t have kids.
If there are no children, the parents will not be satisfied.
If you have children, you have to treat them well, or they will not be satisfied.
If you beat and scold the children all day long, get twittering chicken restless, how can the husband and wife love you?
So, make friends with your kids. It’s okay to be strict, but don’t beat or scold.
8, don’t run to her mother’s house every other day, not to say bad things about her husband and wife.
Married, means to have two homes.
A mother’s family, a husband’s family.
Two families are equally important and can’t be biased.
However, the reality is not biased very little, more is the emphasis on the mother’s family over the husband’s family.
I said it wasn’t a big deal to go to my mother’s house in my spare time.
However, it is a little unreasonable to go to her mother’s house every now and then.
Others must be very puzzled to see, think the husband’s family is not easy to stay.
To say the least, it’s not a big deal. Run if you like.
However, do not speak ill of your husband and wife in their home.
Many daughters-in-law make the basic mistake of thinking that they cannot hear.
In fact, bad words spread far and wide, no matter how deaf the family members will eventually hear.
As a result, family wars follow.
9, in the economy, not to haggle over every ounce.
Many daughters-in-law quarrel or even fight with their parents for one reason: money.
The economy, to put it mildly.
In economic rights, how should we share them with the old wives?
Every daughter-in-law is thinking about it day and night.
Actually, it’s very simple.
It’s yours. It’s yours. Don’t be so hasty.
Especially don’t quarrel with family members.
Family members are getting older every day. Can’t you make the rest of their lives happier?
Besides, even if they are how to bully the economy, is not ultimately left to you?
There’s a very, very small chance that you won’t.
10, good looking, smart and funny.
The daughter-in-law is beautiful, of course, the parents like it, after all, it is their son’s glory.
However, the daughter-in-law is not only cosmetic, but also a little ability.
Otherwise people will look down on you.
Best, but also funny, can make the whole family laugh all day.
Such a daughter-in-law, ensure that no family members do not love.
If you don’t, there’s something wrong with the family, not your fault.
Xiaobian message: In fact, as a perfect woman, not only is the appearance of beauty, more important is the internal cultivation.
Women need to be smarter about the world.
Take dealing with the relationship with parents-in-law for example, “filial piety” is a must, that is a person’s moral duty.
In addition, as long as it is a little careful with life, don’t be too willful by their own preferences to do things, will be loved by the in-laws.
Of course, the same is true of relationships with colleagues and friends.
Just remember that people need to respect each other.
