Graduation is approaching, and a large number of students are about to enter the workplace. Professional psychology experts say that 85% of the success of the workplace depends on whether there are good interpersonal relationships. , The following 8 kinds of bad psychology may evolve into “popular killer.”
1.Self. In order to maximize their own interests, some people do not hesitate to make small reports, discredit other people’s business or even slander the reputation of others. “Self-centeredness” is not tolerated in the workplace because it harms the interests and dignity of others.
2.suspicious. “The boss’s black face today must be aimed at me, what should I do?” Some people are very sensitive and doubt everything. Such people are often insecure about themselves and always worry that others will hurt them. “They make the relationship less natural and easy, and over time, people will stay away.”
3.hypocrisy. Some people are good at speaking sweet words and giving “sugar-coated shells”, which can be accepted at first. But over time, not only will you not be able to make real friends, but your own psychology will also be depressed.
4.coldness. Indifference is a taboo in interpersonal communication. This kind of person may be out of some misunderstandings, such as thinking that “cool” is his personality, or it may be out of an introverted personality. This kind of person loses the opportunity to know others, and also loses the opportunity to let others know themselves.
5.closed. Everyone sometimes wants to close the door and keep the noise out. “If you are too closed, you will become lonely or even autistic. Knowledge, experience and way of thinking will quickly age, losing competitiveness and attractiveness.”
6.Rebellion. Moderately rebellious people are maverick, dare to innovate, and inject fresh blood into the team. However, if you are too rebellious and deliberately raise a bar with others in order to be unconventional, it will be difficult to integrate into the group, and even unable to communicate with others.
7.Jealousy. Whether jealousy will have a fatal impact on interpersonal relationships depends on whether this psychology is manifested in behavior. If you just think about it in your heart, it is human nature, and if you really want to be noticed, you can admit it frankly and laugh at yourself. If it develops to harm and slander others, it may become a “street rat”.
8. low self-esteem. Modern urban life pursues efficiency, people with low self-esteem in this environment, lack of communication skills, lack of assertiveness, often lose many opportunities to show their advantages.
