My mother was late in giving birth to me and I was late in getting married. Therefore, in the family formed by me as an intermediary, there appeared a pair of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who had been different for nearly 50 years. The mother-in-law was born in the 1930s and the daughter-in-law was born in the 1980s.
How can there be no difference in outlook on life and world?
Fortunately, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not small hearted people, and the “intergenerational” effect seems to be playing a role in this special “grandchild”, I was lucky not to be “flat head”.
A comprehensive view of the two people’s concept impact, involving large and small aspects, try to cite a number of examples as follows.
Let’s start with one of the “eating” things in the details of life.
In order to rush to work, in a hurry, the daughter-in-law often with a bowl of instant noodles, a small wonton to kill lunch and even dinner.
Can once have leisure, settled down, its petty endowment face showed come out.
Whether it is cooking or going out to a restaurant, the daughter-in-law must pursue the color, fragrance and taste of dishes, taste, knife skill, color can not be less, it is better to have a little atmosphere.
For A WHILE IS “COARSE CHAFF OMNIVORE”, FOR A WHILE IT IS “EAT NOT TIRED OF ESSENCE”, THE MOTHER-IN-LAW TO DAUGHTER-IN-LAW ELASTICITY SO BIG FOOD VIEW IS BAFFLING, WORRY FOR YEARS WILL STOMACH, BODY EAT BAD?
But the daughter-in-law felt that this was one of the symbols of his generation’s ability to bend!
When it comes to housework, they have different ideas.
Although 70 YEARS OLD, mother-in-law still HOLDS TO EVERYDAY WASH CLOTHES, MOP THE GROUND, WIPE FURNITURE.
The daughter-in-law whipped out 200 yuan and gave the handyman the handyman. As for the spare time, she spent it on yoga and SPA.
The mother-in-law shook her head again and again: “Why spend money to practice what kung Fu outside?
If you want to exercise, why not do more housework?
Isn’t that two birds with one stone and two money saved?
Look at you twentysomethings, pale, not as healthy as I am, not as healthy as I am, not as healthy as I am, you can do more housework without any problems!”
The daughter-in-law smiled but did not answer.
The mother-in-law’s LIFE HAS gone THROUGH THE hone OF The Times wind AND rain, WAR of RESISTANCE, civil war, “Cultural Revolution”, only in the career stability and ordinary, in a unit from hair to white hair.
The daughter-in-law has never tasted poverty, hunger or fear, but she has experienced ups and downs in the process of employment, from state-owned enterprise to foreign enterprise, from personnel to procurement, she was either fired by the boss or fired by herself.
Her mother-in-law prayed every day for her daughter-in-law to settle down, preferably to retire “from one day to the next” like herself.
Daughter-in-law politely explained: Not I don’t want to settle, is the current situation in the back to force us to change, to develop ah!
And, above all, the issue of childbearing.
Xu is through the daughter-in-law this “window”, to “the current situation” from shallow to deep understanding, very caring mother-in-law, in recent years in the matter of “the next generation” of the idea has a mutation, often say: “Children are lovely, of course, in the arms of good white face.
However, raising a child from a young age can be a huge financial, energy, and educational strain for a family.
Moreover, like us this kind of ordinary family children, the future face study, employment competition and so fierce.
Really can’t bear to let adults, children are suffering oh!”
The traditional mother-in-law has a subversive understanding of the issue of grandchildren.
What is interesting is that, as a new age daughter-in-law, she has a new perspective on the need to breed.
She thinks: giving birth to children is really very hard and boring, and will be forever “trapped”, but this is a part of life can not default, sweet, sour, bitter and hot taste to experience once, this will not waste life.
What’s more, although the concept of “raising children for old age” has fallen, even if there are children and grandchildren, in the future in the economy and life will not rely on the younger generation, the old couple will still enter the nursing home, but in the twilight, can have a flesh and blood let their heart care, this is more important than material needs of comfort ah!
“Each generation has its own ideas and ways of doing, whether old experience or new ways of thinking, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, can stand the test of practice, and conforms to the scientific outlook on development, is correct and reasonable!”
My comment may sound reasonable, but I know in my heart that there is “paste” in it.
Son and husband, age in the “30” and “80” between, if I don’t sit on the fence, how to be good?
Both sides DO NOT offend, speak by fact, this is the high measure of the risk THAT ONESELF AVOID CLEAT ALSO!
