There are some things that men really want to know, like that women admire them, are proud of them, think they’re the best.
But SOME THINGS MEN DO NOT WANT TO KNOW, IS their FORBIDDEN area, MINEfield, women do not visit, more do not step on, otherwise, the emotion will be blown away!
Everything about the dignity of a man is the most powerful bomb in this restricted area. Do not encounter it.
I remember reading such a story: “The knight asked a maiden to marry him, but the maiden hesitated.
The knight decided to wait below her for 99 days until she agreed.
From then on, the knight would wait at the girl’s downstairs every day. The girl was gradually attracted to the knight, but she wanted to know whether the knight could stick it out and confirm his love.
Time passed day by day. On the afternoon of the 98th day, the girl hid behind the window and looked at the knight affectionately, with tender feelings in her heart. But suddenly she saw the knight tidy up his clothes and leave with a smile…
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The girl cried out to him to stay, but the knight said to the girl, love is also dignified.
This story is about dignity.
It was not that the knight could not fulfill his promise, nor that he did not love the girl, but that he was afraid that the end would make his waiting meaningless, so he chose the right moment to leave, so as to preserve his dignity.
Life is for a face, no matter thick and thin, beautiful and ugly, their face is very heavy, everyone should be dignified.
Men want more dignity, more than all his, what can not be, but dignity can not be lost.
It’s old, but it makes sense.
Although men seem careless and careless, they are not as strong inside as they look. They have to fight outside, so they care more about others’ opinions in many cases.
For men and women in love, if women learn to give men face, it will make their love icing on the cake.
Love a man’s dignity, equal to love their own man’s dignity is what?
It’s what makes him walk with a swagger, it’s what makes him look bright from every Angle, and it’s what makes his every word a promise that can’t be easily changed.
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and the relationship is very good. One of the important reasons is that I pay attention to give him enough “face”, especially in front of outsiders.
One of his colleagues was often ridiculed as “hen-pecked” because he had to answer so many questioning calls from his wife a day.
I have also seen men who are having parties with friends, only to be embarrassed by a phone call every now and then from their wife urging them to come home. I don’t want my lover to live in such a shadow. I think men need some space.
Usually, I rarely call my boyfriend when he gets together with his friends. If I miss him, I will send him a short message, which not only makes him feel the sweet feelings, but also makes him feel refreshed in front of colleagues and friends.
And he himself also felt very face, more cherish me.
In life, see some wives, on the one hand to hold the purse tightly, on the one hand complain about the husband is not promising.
A man who never has more than 10 yuan in his pocket is doomed to nothing. A man who applies to his wife for even a few pieces of pocket money, what great things do you expect him to do?
The first thing a man should get is dignity, once a man even dignity is gone, that is equal to a virtual shell, eventually will be eliminated.
A man may not drink at all and can’t drink well, but he won’t admit that he can’t drink well. He still tries to show his manliness and dignity by fighting with his partner.
Dignity, for a man as important as life, do not easily touch the dignity of the man of this “nerve”, if this nerve is deranged, then women will pay a painful price.
In many ways, a man will tolerate and give in to a woman. When he is clearly right, he will compromise for the sake of his beloved woman and blame his fault on himself.
Because it’s natural for a man to protect a woman.
A male friend said: “In the eyes of men, women are their own heart, heart move a jump, tightly affecting every nerve of the man.
But when the heart is beating uncontrollably and the man can’t stand it, it has to be replaced.”
Therefore, women should not be more aggressive because of men’s repeated tolerance.
Do not touch LET him feel lose face and man’s dignity, for example, do not criticize his family, education or personality and other facts that cannot be changed, so as to avoid the quick tongue, and murder painstakingly managed love.
Remember, the real powerful woman, will love him, not deliberately torture him, to learn to act in petulant at the same time, give the man a certain dignity.
Everyone has their own dignity, not because he loves you, that you can arbitrarily hurt him, trample on his dignity and despise his right to love you.
${FDPageBreak} He chose dignity over me Everyone knows how accommodating I have a boyfriend, whether he likes it or not, and what I say is like a “decree”.
His friends think he is very nice and excellent in all aspects, but I always scold him in front of my friends.
Many people have advised me not to hurt his self-esteem, do not hold the name of love to do anything, the man’s self-esteem and pride under foot.
But I think women have to give men pressure, men have the motivation to fight.
When we got married, a friend said to me: “I envy you so much to marry a good husband, he can even put down the dignity of a man, I believe you will be happy!”
I used to be very proud of this remark, but when I think about it, it seems to be a mockery of us.
Now we divorced, I just understand, a lost independent personality, what can be left, how can you have the right to love others?
I used the name of love to attack the husband, stripped of the husband’s self-esteem is a stupid and cruel thing.
People have dignity.
So I want to warn everyone, no matter how much love each other, do not hurt each other’s self-esteem, otherwise the harvest can only be planted by their own “bitter fruit”.
Youdao went out with some of her boyfriend’s buddies and their girlfriends yesterday.
No one’s girlfriend started it, and the girls started telling each other about their boyfriends’ flaws.
At first the atmosphere was very good, and then it was too much, and several of the boys were said to have some face.
I half-jokingly told them a joke: “Many men in front of the public to call his wife, tone to raise the octave:” good good, today I go home late, don’t wordy, is busy, hang up!”
At this time, the other people are listening to wait for a good show, clever woman will not be fooled, but will be pleasant way: “husband, I know, if it is too late to call me.”
Put down the phone, the husband in front of the full face.
When I get home, my husband will be happy for your seamless cooperation.
It is this man who seems to have an air about him, and who is probably a busboy in the house who is busy washing and cooking.”
Now that’s a smart woman with the right discipline!
Women who appear to be ordering their husbands around as if they were servants outside are in fact extremely unwise.
Most men are extremely important face, you meet his face, his heart will be grateful to you, will naturally reciprocate.
Some women are complacent, thinking that the control of the money is the control of the husband, a man outside, pocket less than 10 dollars, not only feel embarrassed, his wife should not be honored.
A wise woman should protect the dignity of a man as well as his love, never compete with the dignity of a man, if you think that the blow to his face can conquer his heart, it is really a big mistake, you will lose his respect for you, more likely to lose the love between you.
Give a man some face, you will get a little more love.
He OLD man: “SHI can kill, not insult”, these six words from ancient times to the present teaching many people, especially men.
Dignity is an irrepressible requirement of life. To defend one’s dignity is to lose one’s life, and other efforts are not to mention.
A good example is Xiang Yu’s Wujiang River suicide.
He lost the battle and ran to the Wujiang River. He could have escaped back to Jiangdong on a fishing boat, but he gave up.
Because he felt that he had “no shame to see Jiangdong and his elders”, he had no face to go back to face his villagers, so he chose to commit suicide.
His death made his dignity, made a generation of heroic integrity, make him famous in history.
It can be seen that men value their dignity, even more than their own lives.
Understand this truth, for the man to dignity and make a variety of words and deeds, we need to understand and defend.
Saving face and dignity are their lifelong strengths and weaknesses.
Would rather starve to death also do not eat “contempt food”, it is some of the man who has become a beggar to show the true manhood.
A man’s dignity can be maintained for 10, 20 or more years, but sometimes a woman’s word will destroy it.
If a man has no dignity, his spirit is numb, he can not see the positive progress of others, more can not feel their own weak helpless.
Man, is the master of the world, he can bear a lot of pressure, can assume absolute responsibility.
Confidence, is a man’s fragile goods, sometimes a scornful look or an impatient action, will let a man’s body and mind by a great blow.
Dignity, however, is a man’s fatal wound.
If you do not want to destroy the man, do not touch the man’s fatal wound.
