“Joint venture love” can be said to be “success is nothing, failure is nothing”.
When two people are good, the heart to a place to think, strength to a place to make, accounted for all the time, place and people.
But “joint love” is also the most vulnerable form of combination when hit.
Some work partners fall in love over time and become couples, while others start a business together. Such relationships are called “joint ventures.”
Chao Yahong, 32 years old, has changed five foreign companies, the salary is getting higher and higher, has become a competent employee of the department, it seems that everything is going well, the only annoying problem is marriage.
Compared WITH THE GIRLFRIEND around, his appearance, temperament is not bad, the ability of work, life is not bad, why is still alone so far?
Toward the red oneself also feel suspicious, even if busy at ordinary times less contact with the opposite sex, can know male partners at work there is always a big, looks good on the inside, also sense the condition of shortage, and even though we often went to and from work, but why no one has ever asked her to see a movie in private, not to mention the Cupid’s arrow.
Perhaps Miss Chao can only have the answer by thinking out of her own affairs.
In FACT IS NOT SHE HAS WHAT PROBLEM, BUT do not know FROM when, “JOINT venture” emotional story has become a lot of white-collar taboo, the consensus is not to work with partners, business partners love.
How much truth is there in this?
Fell in love with boss Chen Ming is one of the main directors of some company, Bi Hui miss is his right-hand subordinate.
The relationship between the two is no secret in the company.
Although Bi Hui is careful not to let her colleagues think she is a bully, every time there is a conflict, she will become the target of their private discussions.
In a different company, Bi Hui’s ability would also make her a top right-hand man. However, in this company, everyone thinks that she stands out by virtue of her “vase skills”.
Female colleagues looked sideways at her and male colleagues gave her a wide berth.
If BI Hui CAN be complacent about her “special status”, it is just that she is a diligent, eager to make achievements in the work of the person, to their embarrassing position in the company is very painful.
She would like to simply change a company, but Chen Ming and her hard to retain, let her in a dilemma.
Action: If your romantic partner happens to be your boss, and you don’t want to take advantage of his umbrella, then the right thing to do is switch jobs: move to an unrelated department, or work for a different company.
Otherwise, such “office love” will do more harm than good to your career and relationship.
I fell in love with My client Miss Yimin is the backbone of an Internet company. She is mainly responsible for contacting big clients.
In one after another contact, and a big customer in charge of Mr. Fang fell in love.
After their romance was exposed, also sensitive but felt the pressure from the company.
The relationship between the customers and the company originally is two-way choice, order ran also is a very normal situation, but since know also is Mr. Fang’s girlfriend, her company had decided that Mr. Fang company has a “duty” to buy their products, and if there is anything wrong, as long as is sensitive to, everything can be an olive-branch.
If the quality of goods in a transaction has problems, the company also hopes to persuade Mr. Fang to try not to pursue, reduce the loss of the company.
${FDPageBreak} Similarly, when Yimin put pressure on Mr. Fang, Mr. Fang felt very unhappy.
Once love is linked to interests, people have to doubt its purity.
Mr Fang even feel also in his contacts with the “motive is not pure”, which makes also sensitive fly into a rage, two people part.
At this time also found himself on the choice of love actually put his career from the Yangguan avenue forced on the plank bridge.
Suggestion: The first step is to have a serious conversation with the manager of your company and make it clear that you will never mix your career with love.
The SECOND STEP, gradually LET THE COMPANY’s other grass-roots salesman to take over Mr. Fang’s business, all the details of their own no longer come forward, so that both sides can do business without seeking personal affairs.
So even if in the future also Min and Mr Fang’s love relationship hit the rocks, also won’t cause too much damage to also Min’s career.
Xu Qian’s boyfriend started a small advertising company. Xu Qian started to work for her boyfriend after she graduated from school.
There were only three or four people in the company, including an accountant who came in only twice a week, so most of the time it was just the two of them in the office.
He’s still in the early stages of starting his own business, so sometimes he can be irritable.
Met the setback after two people together sad face, off work also have no mind to go out HAPPY as in the past.
This went on for some time before the two parted.
Xu Qian summed up: “Put love and career together, the originally easy life becomes unbearable.
Another negative: when I looked for a new job, I found that my experience with him was largely blank. I had not learned the good way to work in a regular company or how to handle interpersonal relations with colleagues.
All in all, I have nothing to gain but a failed relationship.”
Advice: It’s simple. Don’t work for your boyfriend, even if you’re in love.
Leave his company and go out into the world to find your own starting point. Don’t let your work set override your emotional set.
Divorce does not leave home above cases are also “joint venture” in the light of love pole, caused by the destruction is not the biggest.
The case of Mr. Kaifeng and Ms. Zhang is even more representative.
They were college classmates. After they got married, they decided to start their own company. After a lot of hard work, they turned a small company into a success.
When the business is doing more and more smoothly, the feelings of two people gave a problem.
At this time of Zhang Man very distressed, jointly run this company more intractable than the child problem.
The company was registered under the name Kaifeng.
Once the two parted, it was time for Zhang to leave the company.
Even if the company’s assets are divided equally, the company legally belongs to Kaifeng, no matter how much work Mr. Zhang has put into it.
Starting a business again requires too much courage and effort, Zhang Man is really unable to make the decision.
At this time do not expect men to have what modest “gentlemanly demeanor”, in the face of livelihood matters, men are also very selfish.
The FEMALE THAT APPEARS IN THIS KIND OF CASE OFTEN HAS VERY HIGH KNOWLEDGE LEVEL AND WORKING ABILITY, THEIR heart and SOUL DO business TOGETHER WITH MALE FRIEND, DISCOVER WHEN CRISIS APPEARS IN feeling however, THE BUILDING OF CAREER ALSO IS ABOUT TO COLLAPSE TOGETHER.
Suggestion: AT this TIME AGAIN how to beat the breast GROUND REGRET ALSO USELESS, ALL measures is to “make amends late”, REDUCE THE loss to the minimum.
Negotiate with the other party first, strive for maximum benefits, at least to obtain a part of the company’s assets, in order to compensate for their years of effort and time.
Then give yourself a holiday, to do something you have always wanted to do, but have no time to do, after a complete rest, you can use a peaceful state of mind to look at the road you have come, and then ask yourself, what do you want to do next?
Shall we continue to struggle, or settle for a quiet life?
