First, don’t be spoiled and spoiled, don’t leave “good”, go out without lifting, eat whatever you want, dress whatever you want, and you will develop a child’s willful character. Parents “love the child – spoil the child – mistake the child”, this is often a trilogy in real life where some teenagers go astray.
Second, avoid protecting and condoning. In daily life, children do wrong things in public. Parents know that they are wrong, but they shelter and cover them up for various reasons. As a result, children cannot correctly treat shortcomings and mistakes.
Third, don’t coax some parents to seek peace for a while, and do not hesitate to fabricate false stories to deceive their children. This kind of immersion will easily make children imitate their parents and develop a hypocritical and dishonest character.
Fourth, avoid sarcasm and sarcasm with children, thinking that they can “stimulate” progress, but the result is counterproductive.
Fifth, don’t ask parents to “hate iron but not steel” for their children. Everything should be perfect. If you don’t follow the way, you will be severely reprimanded, which will make the children feel at a loss, and their thoughts will feel suppressed and restrained.
